recently me and my boyfriend of about a year broke up for a week or so but now he wants to get back together. I am more than likely going to take him back but we have a lot to talk about, like our future and other stuff like that. I don't know what to do about how I should start any conversations and I want to talk to him somewhere private. Where would be the best place to do so?
2006-07-15 07:35:59 · 28 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter when you talk at as long as he's willing to listen and wants to work things out too. Start by telling him what made you unhappy about this relationship and see what he has to say and is willing to do about it. Time will tell if it is worth saving.
2006-07-15 07:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds likes a petty lovers spat a week come on what can you talk about that you haven't already talked about. Above all age plays a large roll in all this. How you feel at 18 will not be the same as when your 21 you will see through world through different eyes. Why not just talk for now assess it all and try a trail period of dating.
2006-07-15 14:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best place to talk is in the car parked in the parking lot somewhere nad just talk about the first thing that comes to your heart.
2006-07-15 14:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Shanice J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a park and do it when its bout sunset so it can end on a beautiful note, make sure that if ur arguments was about lil things u let them go, too many ppl let lil things get in the way of things. dont ever fight about money either, money is the root of all evil. if cheatin went on then dont even bother with him. u have to decide what is important to u, u have to make sure u r doin what is best for ur life and welbeing. so make sure if it was something lil to let it go. email me directly if u want to talk more. 10 points if this helps u would be nice.
2006-07-15 14:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monster Truck Rally.
2006-07-15 14:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be forthright with him. Choose a place to talk like a park or someplace. Tell him you want to talk seriously with him so that he will know that you are sincere about what you are saying to him. Men hate these kind of talks, but they are necessary to have a healthy relationship.
2006-07-15 14:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by tonyab_940 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a public meeting space -- a bench in the park, or someplace open where you are on 'neutral' territory.
Good for you for thinking things through before you get back together.
2006-07-15 14:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to talk and to meet you at you house. make sure noone is home. tell him you want to get back with him but you want to take it slow. start by going on one or two dates a week and if he starts calling all the time then act like you are busy, and drop hints on him that you want to be with him but you also need sometime to yourself. you don't want him to become a little lost puppy always hanging around. my advice: if you want to be with him and he wants to be with you, then in the end everything will work out.
2006-07-15 14:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by peacefulwreck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you?
if your over 18 then bring him to your house, or his.. but if your younger than that then take him to a near by park or some place like that.. so theres nature around you to calm either of you down in case of an argument
good luck
2006-07-15 14:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat out like at a resturant and talk to him about he wants to get back with you and how you feel about this
2006-07-15 14:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by tweetyladyc1029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋