This is a tough question and I don't want you to think I am shallow, but the difference in our appearance is a breaking point in our relationship.
I am blessed in that I am getting better looking as I age. I get asked out daily by women of intense beauty. If there are 100 women in a crowd, the very best looking ones come to me and ask me out. This is new and very odd for me. Of course I like it but I just don't see myself that way. My wife on the other hand, can't get a look if she were naked. Age hasn't been kind to her. Her appearance and body weight have really caused or sexual relationship to dwindle. I am just not very attracted to her anymore. She has treated me poorly or I would be the first to defend 'character over beauty', but she has neither. Because I have been mistreated it is hard to rely on love for our physcal relationship. We are left with superficial beauty and it's just not enough for me to become arroused. How can I change my view point so I can become arroused?
2006-07-15
08:10:55
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