I've been dating this guy for two months and I like him, but recently he called me and told me that he didn't think that our relationship would last past the next two months because everything we're doing now we could do as just friends and in the romance department..we're lacking. We haven't even french kissed yet. When I asked him what he wanted to do he said that he doesn't think that there is no way we could make it better and if we are to break up it's entirely up to me. Truth is I've been avoiding getting emotionally attached because I didn't want to feel obligated to anyone but I don't want to lose him either. What should I do?
2006-07-15 08:15:51 · 20 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A) He's not that into you.
B) He's never been in a real relationship before - is still unsure of how to go about this.
C) He may not even be sure of his sexuality. I have a lot of gay friends who date girls before coming out and tell me that whenever the girl wanted to make out or have sex, he'd make up an excuse or just say no. Why? They don't want to and know for them it isn't right.
2006-07-15 08:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you really want to save the relationship, you would just take it up a notch to kissing and touching or whatever you guys are into. I dont think you just stop yourself from tryingto get attached. If you get attached after you guys kiss or watever, then so be it. Its not that big a deal hun. Just go along with it if you really want this relationship to last and see where it goes. Ok?... I hope this helps
2006-07-15 15:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him you need to let yourself become emotionally attached , you said you don't want to lose him so if not do what you have too to keep him, and that doesn't mean sex either you should really try talking to him and be 100% honest with him and tell him how you feel maybe yall can meet each other half way
2006-07-15 15:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tressybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love him give him that french kiss and maybe he is not the one for you so if you arent sure move on to someone that is romantic so you need to make up your mind girl if you really want this guy or not..
2006-07-15 15:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. two months and no french ing> GET OVER IT! cahnces are hez just what you need. slow down. thats not till after marrage. y want a french when you dont want to get attached? thats redicules
2006-07-15 15:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pull him one day out of the blue 'n french kiss him..if the relationship is "up" to u,then it could mean that he lost interest already,but u can get it back..heat things p a lil (it doesnt have to be sexual)...Bring out ur naughty side...
2006-07-15 15:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by penda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just skip 2 the romance part then just say french kiss me!
2006-07-15 15:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Chandani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it is never going to go anywhere. You should find a guy that wants to be with you, not a guy that feels like he is forced to be with you. Good luck.
2006-07-15 15:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by SigEp84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should brake up. find a new bf and start all over or just act like love him every thing will change
2006-07-15 15:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have to do anything REMEMBER: men have a strange mind of their own it's not easy to understand them so. don;t blame urself
2006-07-15 15:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by marindoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋