I've been dating this guy for two months and I like him, but recently he called me and told me that he didn't think that our relationship would last past the next two months because everything we're doing now we could do as just friends and in the romance department..we're lacking. We haven't even french kissed yet. When I asked him what he wanted to do he said that he doesn't think that there is no way we could make it better and if we are to break up it's entirely up to me. Truth is I've been avoiding getting emotionally attached because I didn't want to feel obligated to anyone but I don't want to lose him either. What should I do?
2006-07-15 08:07:50 · 4 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i guess that he means that he wants more "affection" from your side..If you are comfortable with french kissing you guys should give it a try..but that depends on the fact if you want to break up with him or not. If you decide to keep him just show him that you are interested andthat you want to make this work. If you think that you are too young and not ready for his expectations..well then its' only safe to dump him.
Take care.
2006-07-15 08:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me he is trying to presure you into something. Not good if he is bored with you now do you think after you do everything he might suggest he won't get bored after. If you think it would hurt you to lose him now, after you do all these other things you will feel used and abused. He may get what he wants and move on anyway. There is someone for everyone and if he feels you are not that someone don't worry your time will come. Don't forget that there are plenty of single guys that would just love to spend time with you besides why would you want someone that don't want you??? Be patient and if he goes there will be another right around the corner.
2006-07-15 15:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok take it from someone who is married to a man who does not even know what romance means (literally). A relationship can work without it but there is always a need for it.
2006-07-15 15:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety this is like the other question i dont do repeats
LOL...same answer to your other question....... go for it girl...
2006-07-15 15:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋