Family & Relationships - 15 July 2006

i love to chat and met new ppl on this puter...my problem is that i have a hard time telling ppl that i have a bf...who im miserable with...am i just stupid for caring about ppl's opinions on here or should i just be up front and tell them...some guys off here really want to meet me in person..and i always come up with excuses why i cant..help i need some advice

2006-07-15 09:49:45 · 1 answers · asked by freesiahigh7814 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would love to find the "Love" of my life. I guess I have not been looking in the right places. Where would you go?

2006-07-15 09:49:34 · 3 answers · asked by Ratzrcute 3 in Singles & Dating

well all i know is that hes really cute
he works at taco bell
and his name is Tamen
what should i do

2006-07-15 09:48:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If Kurt Cobain and Jim Carrey had a baby it would be me lol

I look like kurt and have the face and persona of jim

2006-07-15 09:48:53 · 22 answers · asked by Mr. Boodle McNoodle 3 in Singles & Dating

admit to it yourself, just to hide their embarassment and to prove your loyalty?
and would they thank you for it?

2006-07-15 09:48:30 · 31 answers · asked by Pat 2 in Family

what's ur opinion about it?
am i in bad way !?

2006-07-15 09:47:33 · 11 answers · asked by h82s00 . 3 in Singles & Dating

I still think i like him a tad bit, but he still likes me, and people say i should go out with him but I don't know!! any suggestions

2006-07-15 09:45:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 09:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 09:43:40 · 20 answers · asked by rajiv m 2 in Singles & Dating

You see, I feel at fault too because I have this tendency to bicker and compare him to other men... and get extremely jealous when he goes out with a girl friend. I can't believe I ruined such a potentially good relationship from so early on. He really seemed/seems to love me, for he has done a lot for me. He's taken care of me when I am sick, he's always there for me when I am down, and he pushes me to do the right thing academically or financially. It wasn't until last night that he said that... and I am thinking that it's because of my constant bickering and comparing him to other guys. Should I keep him and stop this behavior, or pay for those mistakes and let such a great guy go, and learn from my mistakes for next time?

2006-07-15 09:43:31 · 13 answers · asked by confusedphilosopher43 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes a girl seems so perfect that I am given pause in the midst of this chaotic journey known as life. I have been in situations when I was younger and the girl was perfect for me and yet we both moved on to our own goals and ignored the feeling. It was like everything was too perfect, like, what is the point of doing all these things for my future when everything I want is right here? So I ignored what was right in front of me and said I would come back to love when I was more deserving and further down my life path.

What I did wrong was not realize that it was the girl who caused the feeling and that you cannot just pull love out of a hat. I look back at the two or three encounters that could have been love that I passed by, that we both passed, on the way to our "future". If either of us had made the effort and said what remained unspoken then I think the other would have had a hard time ignoring it... In this life love loses to career of all things. What about your loves?

2006-07-15 09:43:22 · 1 answers · asked by Royce 2 in Singles & Dating

Just a short story of myself. i was out last week with my mate, and just before i realised that some girl was trying to seduce me. She was trying to get my attention, as i saw her she winked and sayed something....but i couldn't exactly knw what she meant, and what the hell was going on..I later was being followed and before i had to respond she disappeared. Could any1 out there tell me exactly whats wrong with me...or the girl. Let see who knows the right answer for this...

2006-07-15 09:43:15 · 6 answers · asked by mnsrl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is killing me. We have a considerable age difference (25years) but are best friends and in love. I couldn't imagine my life without him and only made it this far with his help and kindness. I have met his family and they like me (they didn't trust me at first). But we have kept our relationship a secret from mine (which is why it is killing me because I love my family and hate lying) because I was scared of what they would think about us. In fact, I was never allowed to have a boyfriend in highschool or stay at friends houses because my parents told me I would get raped for sure so that has distorted my views a bit. I just graduated college and live with my grandparents, who are much better people than my real parents, and I think the time has come to tell them. My grandma is always asking me to get a boyfriend. I have been with this man for almost 4 years and it's love. But the hard part is that I have been lying for 4 years.

2006-07-15 09:41:35 · 19 answers · asked by kaliedoscope_eyes86 3 in Family

in our group of friends, im the only left single.. sometimes im so left out esp when we're out.. i loose my self esteem at times coz i dont have a bf and nobody's courting me..i believe im not ugly but nobody's noticing me...sometimes,id rather be alone tha to get jealous of my friends being so sweet over each other.. i broke upt with my long time bf a year ago..since then,nobody came..what do u think should i do? im 19 by the way....

2006-07-15 09:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by michelen d 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy were together for ten months .. just like every relationship strated off wonderful then everything changes.. we used to break up alot and get back together and finally we were together for about 3-4 months straight
he just broke up with me and i must admit i was a little devestated bc it came outta nowher with no reason why.. and even tho i really wanted it i feel better now b/c we argue a tons and hes really immature at times and makes an excuse for everything... so now i wanna know is it too soon to be hanging out with other guys even though i know im not gonna have a relationship with them for a while but is it okay?

2006-07-15 09:40:44 · 12 answers · asked by sweetlilme17 2 in Singles & Dating

does it have a positive meaning or a negative meaning??

2006-07-15 09:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-15 09:39:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am slightly worried cozi feel i am being stalked.....what would be the signs?

2006-07-15 09:39:03 · 14 answers · asked by lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would short very tight fitting crop tops look good with no bra? woudl they go well with my low tight jeans...what do you women think..I already know what guys think...i want a woman;s opinion only...

2006-07-15 09:39:00 · 10 answers · asked by dawn r 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 years of age female and has a 28 year old female friend. She does not always makes wise choices. She weighs about 215 pounds, goes to this one bar about once a week in our neighborhood and drinks heavily. She also picks up old men who are like in their 50-60's and she buys them drinks or buys them cigrattes. She french kisses some of these men when they thank her for buying them the drinks or cigrattes. Also, another thing that really concerns me is once I was with her she and this 50-60 year old guy went to the mens restroom for a couple of mintues. After this, I decided not to go to the bar with her anymore because I was embarrassed at her behavior and for my personal safety and wellbeing. She also has astma. I really want to mentor and a be a friend to her but, I do not know if I can help her in the long run. Her parents do not do anything they in fact encourage her behavior by driving her to the bar. She does not drive. What should I do confront her if so, will it help?

2006-07-15 09:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Friends

2006-07-15 09:35:28 · 16 answers · asked by Cindy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 09:35:22 · 14 answers · asked by John B 1 in Singles & Dating

She treats the house like an hotel only coming back to eat and sleep. When I ask her about it she just ignores me and starts grooming herself. I am worried she is up to no good and will get a bad name for herself. What can I do?

2006-07-15 09:34:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

II want my group to restricted members,,so that when they apply to my group,,I either admit them to my group,,ordeny them to my group,,

2006-07-15 09:33:27 · 2 answers · asked by Dee,,Deanna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-15 09:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the problem ladies, be honest.

2006-07-15 09:32:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been wondering how do you get guys to notice you. I always put make-up on, I do my hair very nicely and I try to smile most of the time...but no matter what no one notices me. Any ideas?

2006-07-15 09:31:57 · 19 answers · asked by PingPongGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that my wife will cheat on me when I go to Iraq to work as a fire fighter?

2006-07-15 09:31:30 · 18 answers · asked by firecoolerman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

his birthday is in a few weeks and i want to make him feel importentya know like so he knows how much i love him how do i do that?

2006-07-15 09:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I'v been married almost 2 years. I never had a CRAZY lustful sex drive with my husband but married him because I love him and he's my best friend. We've had really good sex in our marriage but I go through stages every few months where I can take it or leave it. I'm worried that it's him, because he is quite the jokester and likes to laugh and have fun a lot and sometimes jokes about the sexual act itself and I find it quite the turn off. He also doesn't seem to care if he looks good or not in front of me. He rarely wears cologne even though he knows that it really turns me on and he likes to wear big baggy t-shirts that accentuate his pot belly. Yes I sound terrible now. But I promised him that we would have sex tonight, and I really don't have any desire to.

2006-07-15 09:28:43 · 16 answers · asked by mkk 2 in Marriage & Divorce