me and this guy were together for ten months .. just like every relationship strated off wonderful then everything changes.. we used to break up alot and get back together and finally we were together for about 3-4 months straight
he just broke up with me and i must admit i was a little devestated bc it came outta nowher with no reason why.. and even tho i really wanted it i feel better now b/c we argue a tons and hes really immature at times and makes an excuse for everything... so now i wanna know is it too soon to be hanging out with other guys even though i know im not gonna have a relationship with them for a while but is it okay?
2006-07-15 09:40:44 · 12 answers · asked by sweetlilme17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It should be okay, but it may still be better to remain low profile that you are hanging out with other guys. Don't do it to get back at him, that's not a good idea, but if he comes back wanting to get back with you, I would suggest saying no and then make it apparent you are hanging out with another guy.
2006-07-15 09:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by humean9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, any realtion goes thru that. It matters what you reaaly feel about it, bo matter how long have you two been together. Through, if there are more than 2-3 years is hard to just give up, just like that, with no reason at all, as you said. I bealive this means he was not really ready for a long relation and maybe he's the one that realised (too late) that this is not for him and becoyuse of that he ran out.
2006-07-15 09:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Yahoo Advice Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its ok, you weren't married to the guy and it really hasn't 'worked' since the beginning. you are doing the right thing and maybe hanging out with someone new will help you to not go back to this guy again because you two were obviously not suited for each other.
2006-07-15 09:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two have mixed feelings for each other, especially that guy of yours. If you think it is okay, then it is; but if you don't feel right hanging out with those guys, then you know what you've got to do.
2006-07-15 09:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from this relationship i would just stay broken up and find sumeone new..u and that guy can still b friends, but i suggest not getting back together cuz a realationship like that (constantly breaking up and getting bak together) isnt a very good one
2006-07-15 09:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by The Ren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is something that you have to keepin mind. nothing is anymore like at the begining, everything changes. even human feelings. probably his feeling are not so strong, or probably his self-steem. I would tell you to move on, date other guys... flirt, and so on. who cares if he is gonna change or not? the most important person are you. so have fun with another boy. all being said...take care!
2006-07-16 01:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no problem. You weren't married to the guy, and he has nothing over you. Go out and have a great time....don't worry about anything. There are more fish in the sea. Best of luck to you.........
2006-07-15 09:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its ok if you want to hang out and around other guys.even if you're not ready to have another relationship right now.I mean i did when i broke up with my bf's when i was dating.But i'm now engaged to be married.so i hope all goes well when ur ready to start dating again.
2006-07-15 09:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its okay that you hang out with other guys, even if things happen your done with the other guy and its time to move on
2006-07-15 09:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by R.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it would be okay to circulate out and date around yet you do no longer want to get right into a intense dating suitable away. i think of human beings want time to regulate loosing somebody they care approximately and comprehend what went incorrect.
2016-11-02 03:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by sokin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋