Family & Relationships - 14 July 2006

After dating for 4 years, me & my ex went through a very sour & painful breakup. During our breakup I would constantly cry & beg him to take me back but he would angrily yell, insult me, tell me to move on, & refused to take me back. I finally let go & we no longer dealt with each other anymore. As time passed, I made a new boyfriend & during the time I was with my boyfriend my ex would call my house just to see how me & my family was doing cuz he knew us for a very long time. I told him not to call anymore because I had a boyfriend & it's not right that I speak to him. He agreed & stopped calling. My current relationship with my new boyfriend just ended & me & my old ex started talking again. Even though I'm single again, I'm uncertain whether or not I should be talking to him again because I think I may still have feelings for him & I don't think he feels the same way. He has other female friends, goes clubbing (I don't) & asks me to hang out with him. What should I do?

2006-07-14 13:18:54 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 13:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 13:16:18 · 18 answers · asked by cwoods9375 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a early 40s, successful single man and looking for suggestions on where or how to meet a nice single woman. Once I am in a place to meet it is not any problem making conversation. It is just where is a good place to meet other singles. Any ideas or suggestions would be really appreciated.

2006-07-14 13:14:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 13:13:48 · 31 answers · asked by YOMOMMA! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just being curious also i have blue-gray eyes.

2006-07-14 13:13:19 · 13 answers · asked by thisis j 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 13:12:57 · 19 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if not, what can he/she do to make you feel better.

2006-07-14 13:12:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

can anyone tell me where i can go to meet nice, good looking men, not one or the other, but both at once? I live in dinuba california and there is nothing but mexican chovinists here.

2006-07-14 13:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

just curious

2006-07-14 13:11:33 · 4 answers · asked by it'sunusal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What the heck is the deal here? Im 26 now an i am not getting any younger. Im a single hispanic women with a daughter who is seven years old. I have not moved out because im still single and i dont want to live alone (without a man). I dont understand it though. Im 5'7, thin and physically in shape. I have long curly hair which i recently straightend, brown eyes nice lips... well any way Im Hot!. But Im still single. Ive noticed that men are afraid to approach me, but they are not afraid to stare and sometimes make silly gross faces. Ive seen alot less attractive women with some really nice men, and i just dont understand it. I go to the gym almost daily where there are men galore, but i dont want to date anyone from the gym, cuz then i cant make faces and grunt. I never go out to clubs or anything like that and i dont have any female friends. They also are intimidated, but why?. I dont know, i gues im going to have to gain some weight and knock out some teeth. Guys, tell me why!

2006-07-14 13:09:59 · 19 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

tantric s.e.x

2006-07-14 13:09:03 · 3 answers · asked by cinderella 3 in Singles & Dating

it has been more than 5 yrs we're together. however whenevers we get into arguments i would be the one to pacify things. every time we break up either i suggest it or he does, i would be the only one to care or cry. he would just be mad and act like an a s s hole. i mean he could be acting hard but that's the point... is a guy like that that only shows that he's mad when things go wrong worth it to even be with or try? sometimes afterwards he would call me back after i give up trying so hard, but the process before that already hurt me too much but most of the time i forgive and try to be happy with him. but this is happening way too much. he never really compromises. as you can tell he prob don't even care or as much as i do because usually i would be the one to cry or care for the relationship. so should i just move on (not to someone else but just drop him)? should i give up trying as he doesn't even care for me or the relationship?

2006-07-14 13:08:23 · 7 answers · asked by dorkydork 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, what are you passionate about?

2006-07-14 13:08:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 13:08:12 · 15 answers · asked by Theresa Rose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last week i went to driving school, it was a 4 day course and i met this girl the first day. We really hit it off and got along great, the third day i got her phone number, and the 4th day i asked her out for coffee and a movie, and her friend to come with her (so she wouldn't feel uncomfortable). I am 16, and she is 15. The date is going to be next week or so and I'm wondering when i should kiss her (approximately) please no "when it feels right answers". I have not had my first kiss yet, but i haven't dated much. She is very into me and there is very much an attraction, but I'm confused on when i should kiss her because i have never met a girl like this, I don't believe i should kiss her on the first date, because her friend will be there. I read in a book that you should kiss on the second date because if you don't, you will be stuck in the "friends zone" and i don't want that. So please help me by telling me about when we should have our first kiss, first date, second, etc...

2006-07-14 13:07:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been having problems with the men lately
and i never know when i really should stop giving them chances
and
im not strong enough to let go
...
how many chances to they deserve and what makes it easier to let go

2006-07-14 13:06:50 · 25 answers · asked by Jonatello 2 in Singles & Dating

and we'll all have some tea!

2006-07-14 13:06:05 · 2 answers · asked by cinderella 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 13:05:24 · 25 answers · asked by bmxmom320 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-14 13:04:58 · 6 answers · asked by smokeyforte 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 13:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by anne_35989 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-14 13:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by mamadrayton 1 in Friends

I dont know if Im a bisexual I admire women alot i find many atractive. I also day dream with being with one too and all by the Im a female but I like guys too it's weird

2006-07-14 13:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by Maria G 1 in Singles & Dating

I have dated men outside of my race and I have to deal with unbearable familes. I have never broke up with a guy because of their family, but some have broke up with me over it.

2006-07-14 13:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Taya Wane 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with a great guy for over a year. The first couple of months the sex was great but then it was like it died a death! I don't know why - it was a hard year tho. My bf is soooo good looking but for whatever reason it's like I don't want to jump him. I've been having sex dreams about my ex who was not nearly as good looking but we had loads of sex (partly because we weren't very compatible in other ways). I think my question here is ... anyone been in this spot? Can we make the sex work? How can I make myself lust after my boyfriend? My bf is sooo great and when we do have sex it's great, but I just never seem to want it!!! He doesn't make me want to jump his bones!

2006-07-14 13:03:21 · 11 answers · asked by ariadne2003uk 2 in Singles & Dating

you decide/

2006-07-14 13:03:06 · 4 answers · asked by cinderella 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 13:02:43 · 22 answers · asked by h22 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine was that my partner was superhorny and into me.

2006-07-14 13:01:55 · 10 answers · asked by J~Me 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-14 13:01:54 · 24 answers · asked by williamt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have found that i have trouble meeting new friends or connecting with other girls. i have a couple friends that are girls and they have their friends and it turns into a group thing. But i just dont feel comfortable for some reason, i just didnt feel like talking to the girls. i get kinda anxious to leave or I just dont talk and notice that i act timid. I have guy friends and when I meet some of their friends i guess it feel better, more comfortable. But around girls that i dont know, it seem diffucult to me. Does/did any other girl have/had this problem?

2006-07-14 13:01:42 · 4 answers · asked by katechaos34 2 in Friends