I have dated men outside of my race and I have to deal with unbearable familes. I have never broke up with a guy because of their family, but some have broke up with me over it.
2006-07-14 13:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Taya Wane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Taya, you should realize that it is you and him that matters. The family of his is not dating him you are. Yes, it is a tuff road but don't let someone's family be the reason for you next break up. Prove them wrong girl!
2006-07-14 13:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jade Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You follow your heart and don't let people sway your decision. Once you and your partner are happy together that is what matters. There will be hurdles to overcome like Religion, customs, Family prejudice and a host of other things beyond the scope of this answer. Not to mention your friends and family the list just goes on.
I personally like East Indian or Hispanic girls. As well as girls of other races. I get along better with them and they are more open to things of a mutual basis. Not all people can take the pressure when you are dating some one outside of your race, those things happen as some people don't want to be disown by their family and friends.
I really don't care once me and my partner are happy that is what counts. For it is better to be with a race you get a long than in a miserable relationship.
2006-07-14 13:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I did, then i don't have my suited 4-year-old daughter who's an element Korean. i'm also colorblind, so i ought to care a lot less once you're polka dotted. i imagine distinct people have complications because interracial relationships may reason some grief for particular couples. that's unhappy that on the on the spot some people look to epidermis colour to fall in love.
2016-11-02 02:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's someone you really care about then ya it's gonna be worth it. I've dated few times outside my race and normally her family recieves me fine, but the older folk in mine don't too well. I just let them know, this is who I'm dating, if you don't like it then be quiet or I'll just make my visits less to them...given little time they come around.
2006-07-14 13:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem. One day you will find a man that has the same feelings for you that you have for him. And what his family says wont mean anything to him. It will take time. Its just sad how some families can be prejudice.
2006-07-14 13:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is worth the effort. culture shock and all. black parents are more racially aware than white parents.
2006-07-14 13:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, if you really have feelings for that person then it is worth it.
2006-07-14 13:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋