Last week i went to driving school, it was a 4 day course and i met this girl the first day. We really hit it off and got along great, the third day i got her phone number, and the 4th day i asked her out for coffee and a movie, and her friend to come with her (so she wouldn't feel uncomfortable). I am 16, and she is 15. The date is going to be next week or so and I'm wondering when i should kiss her (approximately) please no "when it feels right answers". I have not had my first kiss yet, but i haven't dated much. She is very into me and there is very much an attraction, but I'm confused on when i should kiss her because i have never met a girl like this, I don't believe i should kiss her on the first date, because her friend will be there. I read in a book that you should kiss on the second date because if you don't, you will be stuck in the "friends zone" and i don't want that. So please help me by telling me about when we should have our first kiss, first date, second, etc...
2006-07-14 13:07:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At some random moment on the second date, lean over and say.. "I have to tell you a secret" and when she leans her cheek towards you kiss her and say, "I've been dying to do that since the moment I met you". Hey, if its going to be your first kiss it might as well be totally cheesy!! :-) If shes into you too she'll love it, if not she'll think your lame.
2006-07-14 13:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by bIGrED 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm, i definately think that you should wait until the second date, cuz you don't want to be too early of too late. I know that I wouldn't like a guy kissing me on the first date, unless he asked. So if you want to kiss her on the first date, you should maybe ask, when it feels like the moment, so that's what i think. Make the right decision if you really want this to last.
2006-07-14 13:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Candigurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely have the kiss on the SECOND date because if you kiss on the first date she might think all you're trying to do is get into her pants. And if you kiss her on the first date she might not feel comfortable with/around you.
2006-07-14 13:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because of your situations you should wait until the 3rd date because it sounds like this first "date" isn't really a date. Make sure the next two are just the two of you alone especially since you invited another friend to the first date.
2006-07-14 13:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i think u should put the goddanm books down and actually go out and experiment urself. but i think u should kiss her in the first date i mean it always works for me so it should work for u too and u shouldnt give a f*ck about her friends cause they can stare all they want cause if u really like this girl then it shouldnt matter who's lookin while yall kiss.
2006-07-14 13:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by "MXWA4LIFE" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude never wait for the right time cuz I did and it took like a month for me to kiss her I think the second or third date would be okay but just go for it and have fun with her good luck
2006-07-14 13:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first kiss on first date is ok if she seems receptive, but not as long as she has a friend with her, if she asked to have a friend along, its because shes uncomfortable about it. wait till you and she are alone, and be gentle, maybe kiss her cheek the first time.
2006-07-14 13:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't kiss on the first date, esp. if her friend is there. Wait and see how she is. Then, if you are still comfortable with her, kiss her on the second date.
2006-07-14 13:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by cows4me79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw away the book and kiss the girl.
2006-07-14 13:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the second date is safe - if you wait too long she'll think you're not interested. don't use tongue at first though - just make it sweet and safe. use tongue on the third date
2006-07-14 13:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by soul patrol baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋