What the heck is the deal here? Im 26 now an i am not getting any younger. Im a single hispanic women with a daughter who is seven years old. I have not moved out because im still single and i dont want to live alone (without a man). I dont understand it though. Im 5'7, thin and physically in shape. I have long curly hair which i recently straightend, brown eyes nice lips... well any way Im Hot!. But Im still single. Ive noticed that men are afraid to approach me, but they are not afraid to stare and sometimes make silly gross faces. Ive seen alot less attractive women with some really nice men, and i just dont understand it. I go to the gym almost daily where there are men galore, but i dont want to date anyone from the gym, cuz then i cant make faces and grunt. I never go out to clubs or anything like that and i dont have any female friends. They also are intimidated, but why?. I dont know, i gues im going to have to gain some weight and knock out some teeth. Guys, tell me why!
2006-07-14 13:09:59 · 19 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are as hot as you say you are then the answer is in front of you. The world we live in today, its a lot harder to get with an attractive female. Some guys cant stand rejection so much, they avoid the possibilites of facing it. I'd say you approach the man and start talkng. Don't be judgemental. Good luck.
2006-07-14 13:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everyone is too intimidated to approach you. I've had the same problem my whole life...and I still don't have many women friends...they're too catty...lol I say you need to be more outgoing, smile a little more..and don't be afraid of dating some one from the gym. Besides..if they are gonna like you then the face making and grunting is not going to be a problem. They might even find it exciting to work out together. Its already something you have in common ya know? So open yourself up more to the men you already see on a regular basis...I'm sure Mr Right is in there somewhere. =)
2006-07-14 20:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that when I thought that a woman was beautiful I always had the feeling she was to good for me or that she deserved better than me. It just seems like I never had anything to say I guess, but there are times when I wish I did. Don't rush your 26, I know, you feel like your getting to old and life's passing you by, its not. I'll tell you its better to wait for the right guy then rush in and be married to some life sucking viper that you might have three kids with and can't leave because you love them so much. And remember one thing in a relationship no contracts, I'll do this if you do that. If it's not for love it's not worth it.
2006-07-14 20:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by kclark34@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are *****. You are not so friggin' hot that girls don't even like you. Someone is always willing to be your friend. But not if you are b!cth or constantly talk about how HOT you are.
Because on this thing I've noticed you only talk about your looks. Don't get me wrong physical beauty is important....but not the most important. Are you even a nice person, you never bothered to mention that.
If you notice guys are afraid to approach you because you claim to be so damn HOT....then APPROACH THEM!!!! Obviously they won't turn their backs to you right????
That's probably why those less attractive women are with good looking men. Those women had the self esteem and initiative to approach them.
2006-07-14 20:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes the person you're waiting on takes a LONG time to get to you. Another reason you don't wanna go parading around saying "I'm Hot!" because people will think if you're so hot then why are you single? I really don't know why they are "intimidated" by you, but you should try getting out more like going to clubs, parties etc.
2006-07-14 20:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Question? I Got An Answer! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation as you, for many years, now. I'm not sure why we're still single, or why we haven't found the right lady by now. No idea why we both haven't got a girl friend. don't let it get you down, live life as long, as you can!
2006-07-14 20:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just plain stupid. If they don't think they can get in your pants the first date, they dont bother.
I would date someone from the gym, he makes the same noises and faces. They also happen to be the same noises and faces you use during sex...
2006-07-14 20:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by ricksliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm Got me. The only reason I wouldnt talk to a good looking girl is becuase I am shy. Iam as shy as Mike Tyson is crazy
2006-07-14 20:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by paintballer0389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have often asked that question! anyways, i think you should try to seem less intimidating, there's no need to knock some teeth off or gain weight. anyone who anwsered your question here can most likely make a vivid picture of you since you described yourself pretty well, but one thing you forgot to mention... have you ever tried smiling? i think you should do that often. good luck to you. :)
2006-07-14 20:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are learning the ageless question, try getting out of the house more often and doing more recreational things like im one to talk
2006-07-14 20:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by XILD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋