2006-07-14 13:01:54 · 24 answers · asked by williamt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you are in love things can be a bit easy but not necessary.
if you like some one and you know that you can love that person later is way better than if you love someone and you are not sure if you will stay in love with or not...
the most important thing is love throughout your marriage ...
and if you look at your marriage as a follower who needs daily care to be fresh then you will be happy
2006-07-14 13:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You wasted 5 points asking this dumb @ss question!!!
If you are dumb enough to ask this question, you must be dumb enough to risk your entre life being married to someone you don't love.
Silly wabbit!!! Marriage is a sacred thing to be shared with the person you love most...share the same interests yet have your own. Look up the definition of marriage and you will know what I'm talking about.
Also, look at a couple that has been married for a long time and ask them whats the secret to their success. They will tell you it's alot of work. You may not always like the person you are with, but the trick is to always love them.
2006-07-14 20:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by fourcolor4u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to marry some one you don't love? Love is the reason you get married.
2006-07-14 21:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by totsie_rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely think you should be in love before you get married.. if you were to get married and not be in love then in 4 years you realize that your never going to be in love then you just wasted your time and the other persons time.... and in the long run you or that other person will end up hurt..
2006-07-14 20:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by ~MRS. PILKINGTON~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of question is that??? Would you get married and stay with someone you don't love for the rest of your life? Come on now!
2006-07-14 20:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I know that some cultures treat love as an option in marriage, but with divorce as easy as getting a nose-job, love is an essential in America.
2006-07-14 20:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because when you get married you have to love each other first and after you get married. And you make a comitment too.
2006-07-14 20:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Emily R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make such a commitment i think you should at least love them or be in love....but people marry for all kinds of reasons sometimes or most not the right ones!
2006-07-14 20:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes why get married if you don't love the person.that's the most important thing to have
2006-07-14 20:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put yes. In a relationship you need four things friendship, love, trust, and communication. With those four things your relationship will flourish.
2006-07-14 20:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋