what is the best payback for cheating?

Question

What if children are involved?

OK guys. let me ask this.. How would you feel if hes a married man with 1 child had a cheap thrill- Supposidly learned his lesson.. DO you believe he would deserve a second chance?

Answer 1

i do not think you should cheat on him, 2 wrongs do not make a right. if you love each other an he is really not wanting to lose you then go to a counselor and work on your relationship. ya need to talk really talk and find out the problem. as for pay back well you could put his pic up at wal-mart the gas station ect that reads warning has 12 kids and like to cheat on wife. or test for aids in waiting please call 1800- cheating if seen. or please return stray husban, lost and may be cheating . or lost this man to cheating ways please slap and return for beating. this will get his attention, you never have to say a word about it whose to know you did this. if you dont tell a sole no one will ever know. good luck hope you can fix this or move on we weman need to do some sole searching to find out who we are and what we want to many of us has let a man use and abuse us for this crazy thing called love...

Answer 2

The best payback for cheating is living well. Dump the guy or girl and don't bother yourself with getting even. Some old fart said one time, "When you plan revenge find two graves...one for your victim and one for you". Don't lower yourself to that level. Keep you honor intact and don't wast another minute on the cheater.

Check out the following website. It can answer your questions better than I can. It will also give you a bird's eye view into a guy's psyche.
http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/

Good luck

Answer 3

How can you trust he cheated once? Did you hire a p.i. to confrim his affairs and where abouts? You know he could have children stashed around the U.S. and you think he deserves another chance. Audultry is the only reason for divorce cheak the Bible Mark 10:12.

Answer 4

I'd give him a second chance only if he agreed to marriage counseling. I think it's very hard to heal this kind of breach of trust without professional help. Especially with a small child involved. I pray the 2 of you can make your marriage work. God bless!

Answer 5

Best payback is making the person make it up to you and then leaving them. Works best when it involves money.
This is the most guilt free way of getting back at them.

Answer 6

Cheat back just dont let the children know whats goin on unless it gets serious or just move on that hurts people to beacause if they liked you they always come running back into ur arms

Answer 7

Don't do what he did to you, it what mean anything. You should follow your heart if he don't want to be with you leave and find someone else.I know that it will hurt the kids but you have to do whats best for you.Think of it as a sign to save you from more hurt and pain.

Answer 8

Count the cheating as a blessing and move on. Don't un-dignify your self by stooping to his level. By leaving him...he has been well paid...and it will be for the rest of his life.

Answer 9

only if you are ready for more of the same, also some day you will have to look that child in the eye and explain why they should respect you if you didn't have enough self respect to leave a cheater.

Answer 10

Payback? Are you kidding?

If you tolerate bad behavior, you're condoning it. Once a cheater, always a cheater. DUMP HIM. He just proved he cannot be trusted, and has no integrity.