I know I can't be the ony one in this situation. My husband and I married 3 yrs ago, we are both in our early 50's. My previous marriage was for 18 yrs, and I remained singel for 9 yrs. I spent more time alone than my current husband ever has. His last wife was nearly 19 yrs younger than me, and I am very intimidated by this. My ex husband was a pedophile .....need I say more. So now I have married this very nice gentleman, but he has no desire for intimacy, at least with me. This makes me feel very ugly and unattractive. For some reason I am just sure it's because his ex was so young, and now he is with someone his own age, and ...well...he must not see me as exciting. He's got viagra, and he's been tested for his testosterone...it's normal...so it's got to be me , right? I have never had a "normal" intimate relationship, and I wanted that so badly with this last "big" decision in my life. But it's like he's lost all interest.
2006-07-12
20:34:58
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iamjaycee
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Marriage & Divorce