I keep running into him (virtually)..actually I make myself run into him..I spied on him online.. and found bunches of info abt his life. recently I found out he is married.. I want to get it over with... but why do I keep doing this.. Is this normal? Why do we go closer to things that we know we will never get?
2006-07-12 20:18:04 · 6 answers · asked by itsmee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's normal to want things we can't get, especially other people. I have done the same thing and sometimes you never do get totally over that other person. And no it's not psychotic. There is always an allure to something that is out of reach. How long did you know this guy and was this someone you just knew from on line? Since I've been there myself all I can say is don't beat yourself up about your feelings and that you are normal! The best thing that helps,and it sucks, is time.
2006-07-12 20:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Reagan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it any more. if you cannot stop seek help. talk to someone. actually, there are so many cute boys in the world, why are you stuck with this one? is he soooo very special? if he is what is it on him you find special? just put it on the paper. on the left side good sides of him, on the right bad. and be objective. then sum it up. after that go out and see how many other guys are like him. you'll find a couple at least. but most important, STOP RUINING YOUR LIFE!!!! start living it. obsessive behavior has never brought anything good to anyone.
2006-07-13 03:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by ina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , this the way of life .
2006-07-13 03:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever heard/read that ur behaviour are the symptoms of a sick person?i think u should get counselling session
2006-07-13 03:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by munchen2186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he's married he's marryed but if it's meant to be it is suppose to be.
2006-07-13 03:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by fieldmicegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arre acting OBSESSIVE and borderline STALKING. get over it and move on with your life...HE HAS!!!!!!
2006-07-13 03:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋