2006-07-12 20:24:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well to go against tabbie
i find it very pleasurable it took my husband a while to talk me into it he started by just asking my first answer was simply hell no he just kinda eased me into it with toys LOTS OF LUBE and let me know that I was in CONTROL so if I said no it meant no if i said stop to stop
the first time we actually achieved it had been months and months of trying every now and then we finally achieved it while using anal ease it is a desensitizing cream but DO NOT USE IT AFTER THE FIRST COUPLE OF TIMES she needs to know when there is actual pain because you can cause damage if you can't feel whats going on we now use plain old K-Y Jelly
also have her look it up on the net she will find its really common thing and there is plenty of sites that explain how to for first timers
hope this helps you I know it took me a LONG TIME to agree to even TRY this so be patient and don't make her feel like she is letting you down by not doing it you don't want her to do it just to please you cause she will never enjoy it then
2006-07-12 20:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already asked her and the answer was no, then leave it alone and deal with it. While the porn starlets out there make anal sex look like it's the ultimate thing, for most average women it's painful, awkward and uncomfortable. Men will always tell you to keep trying, to buy toys & jellies, to ease her up into it until she gives in. If she has to give in just to shut you up and make you happy, then you're not being a very considerate husband at all. Respect your wife enough to let her be and maybe one day she will surprise you and want to try it on her own free will, not because you want it.
2006-07-13 09:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Susan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you gotta know what you are doing, secondly she's gotta trust you, be gental,cause most likely she's tried it before and had a very bad experience, so use lots of lube allow her to relax before you bang her out,just tell her that it's something you would like to experience/share with her...trust!!!!
2006-07-13 03:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't because it hurts the woman really bad and if you love her don't make her or ask her anymore
2006-07-13 03:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by tabbie_18_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldnt, I mean would you like something being stuck up your ***?
2006-07-13 03:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by dm1003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her! a lot of women like it!!
2006-07-13 03:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must want it bad
2006-07-13 03:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋