Family & Relationships - 23 June 2006

I'm at my witts end and need some help from someone who has been there. Answer me and I'll give you more contact information.

2006-06-23 08:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I had been together for a year and a half, living together for 1yr...Everything was great together, then he had to leave the Army for medical reasons and moved back to MD to be with his mother/sis/bro because they needed him to take care of them.. I am stuck 4000mi away and am 2yrs away from getting my degree, which we both agree is the best thing for me to do. He and I broke up and didn't talk for a month and a half and he finally emails and calls and we are on the process of working things out. He is working 6days a week, about 13hrs a day, hardly makes enough to support all four of them up there, and has some psychological problems because of serving in Iraq. I am in love with him and he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, he feels the same, he says I am his world-the last thing he wants is for me to be unhappy... Is love supposed to be this difficult? And should he have to take on all the responsibilities and sacrafice him happiness?

2006-06-23 08:59:32 · 1 answers · asked by WoWChick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really need help before i hurt myself!!

2006-06-23 08:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by playgurl pooh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my man of eight months is great.. which everyone has their downfalls but he has brought so much happiness into my life that i haven't since in eight years.. he has been hurt by his ex wife and ex financee.... which he planned on marrying her after six months of them being together but they both cheated on him and treated him like s@#$ !!!! but he will talk about other women being pretty and so forth but he told me he has been burnt before that he was going to be careful this time but i want him to open up and tell me how he feels about me ,,HELP!! Thanks ahead for all your comments

2006-06-23 08:58:38 · 11 answers · asked by babygirl29 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-23 08:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've got myself a new girlfriend. When doing it "doggy style" I wouldn't mind giving her a firm but gentle spanking. It turns me on but she's the sensitive type. How do I suggest this sort of thing in a polite sort of way that won't be a turn off? I'm willing to let her do it to me also.

2006-06-23 08:57:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seriously why everytime there a beautiful black girl they say they have white features people talk like white women are the finest on earth they are fine but they aint ****** wit light skinned girls or cinnamon skinned girls

2006-06-23 08:57:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf and i relocated for his job, the company provides housing and several guys live in the houses together (they are big houses) most of them go home on the weekends but we stay because we are here together. lately though one of the guys that lives in our house is getting on my last nerve, for a while there my bf was out way too much with the guys fishing or crabbing, finally i said if i'm going to sit here alone 24/7 i'm going home which woke him up and now he wants to stay home. this guy though doesn't want to 'let him go' he went as far as taking out a loan to buy a boat in order to keep my bf hanging out with HIM on weekends! he NEVER goes home anymore and just makes plans to hang out with my bf without asking, its getting really annoying and kind of sick really, he won't take his new boat out with any of the other guys on the job unless my guy goes. everyone says he's gay, i don't know whether he is or not, he was once married but hasn't even had a date in 9 year

2006-06-23 08:56:17 · 15 answers · asked by dappersmom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

First I have to say thanks to everyone on this website- it's been a ton of help since places like the knot and other wedding sites cater to rich couples or parents I should say. Me and my FI are paying for the whole wedding. I want a wild and fun wedding but I am having a stroke everytime I see the price of a receiption. I am going to start checking out Firehall but if anyone has any suggestions I would love to hear it. I am trying to keep it $50 dollars a head and we gotta have open bar- hey we're irish and german! And I am tacky tacky tacky so if you know anywhere that still has the metallic wallpaper and 70's decor let me know!! I tried Adelphias but it was 120 per person plus tax and graduity!! Wow, they must have to charge extra to keep the neon lights in the bathroom on :)
Thanks everyone!!

2006-06-23 08:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A night or durring the day? In a slide when kids were at the other side of the playground lol?

And to those who don't know...the deed=SEX

2006-06-23 08:55:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-23 08:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by asknoone84 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin calls me up to ask me 4 a favor;if I could run to school to clean her child that just poop on his pants and his been doing this 4 quit some time now I say about 3 yrs ago I think he has a problem..

2006-06-23 08:55:05 · 2 answers · asked by DiamondsR4grls 1 in Friends

so my boyfirend of 3 years, doesn't spend time with me or talk to me anymore, because he has school and work.. and the little time he has he spends wit with his friends.. i'm trying to be understanding.. but i have alot of issues going on in my family, and life, and i need someone to be there for me.. i've tried talking to him but it doesn't solve anything, he just says i'm trying to argue with him.. and all we doeis just have sex.. thats the only time he's interested in spending time with me.. so i don't know waht to do.. everytime i tell him i'm leaving he's always begging me to stay but i can't do thisanymore. i need more from a relationship and he's not just providing it for me.

2006-06-23 08:53:57 · 39 answers · asked by scream.for.me.papi. 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm a virgin,determined to have sex only when i am married.How do i keep my dude,who claims to be a virgin to interested in me?Some deep instinct tells me he is the one for me.I need advice on how to hook him so he can only think of me and want to marry me(without having sex).Serious stuff,this is my future.I need him to be mesmerised by me.

2006-06-23 08:53:55 · 13 answers · asked by kareen 4 in Singles & Dating

I know I should let it go but I keep thinking about it. I am dating this lady that has 2 kids and course has an ex. I also have to kids and an ex. I trust this woman with all my heart. She is very good to me. The problem is he ex is always calling about something. She can call her kids when he has them and he always needto talkto her about something(dont have to be about the kids. Iknow he is always going to be in our lives b/c of the kids. He has told her that he wants her back and she does tell me these things. Dont dont like to keep anything from me. He will call late hours of the night. He always pulls her to the side the talkto her when I am around. I know he does some of these things to tryand get under my skin. I am trying not to let this stuff bother me but I just cant stop thinging about it all. I really love this woman. We have talked about getting married atthe first of the year. We do live about 1 hour apart fromeach other so we dont get to see eachother all the time.

2006-06-23 08:53:39 · 11 answers · asked by bigdog_0032 4 in Singles & Dating

I previously asked a question, If my boyfriend fingers me and EVERY time he has blood on his fingers what's happening or why does it happen, and if I was still a virgin and people told me that he had popped my cherry so I wasn't a virgin anymore. Is that true if I bleed EVERY Time he does it?

2006-06-23 08:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by aaliz18 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to send an email and be notified when it has been viewed-not just delivered.

2006-06-23 08:52:44 · 6 answers · asked by melaneecsmith 1 in Family

i found out im only allowed to ask 5 Qs so here are two. hopefully, i wont get booted off.

in the past, i alwayssss go out with a girl and then get tired of her after (..ohhhh..) a month or two. but im with this girl and i dont want it to happen with her, i wana get one for real, settle down, and stick with it. running out of things to talk about, gettin bored, wanting something new. *dont wanna be a playaa nomore* any advice on how to avoid it from happening again?

also, i usually talk with other girls in a fashion i should be talking with my gf. but im not sure what it is that makes me not want to talk to her like that. i think its cuz i care about her so much that i talk so nice and politely, when really i should be talkin to her the other way. its like i dont talk to my gf in the way a bf should, but i talk to a girl who im not with in a manner as though i am with her, are u getting it? ?

2006-06-23 08:52:01 · 6 answers · asked by PaulWaoul 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to get my boyfriend to do it, but he says most guys don't!

2006-06-23 08:51:55 · 32 answers · asked by itsme! 2 in Singles & Dating

We all have something in our lives that depresses us (for most it wud be a man or a woman or a job or mayb ur parents), so I want u to identify that issue thats making u unhappy & give urself the best advice u wud give anyone.
Its the end of the week guys...
I just want evry1 to start it in a good mood!
So write down whats troubling u and ur own words of wisdom.
No cheating... U have 2 take ur advice!

2006-06-23 08:51:23 · 9 answers · asked by AfroSistah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I moved to Dayton for school from NewYork. I feel lonely. I don't have a girlfriend, I am not ugly either. I just can't seem to find a girl. Well to be honest, I'm afraid to ask a girl out. Yet I summoned courage to ask a girl out originally agreed only for her to back out, stating that she just started to date someone. It dampened by confidence. I tried to to bar with myself for 30minutes, still didn't find many girls around. The girls present already had men with them. I mean I can just go up to girl out of the blue and ask her out. Please whoever can give me some good advice as to where to hook up with a girl in Dayton will help. Thanks for reading...

2006-06-23 08:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-23 08:49:56 · 8 answers · asked by bluefirefly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-23 08:49:46 · 18 answers · asked by Spitfire 2 in Singles & Dating

I get guys all the time who say they are interested in me. We talk and get along great but then they play the friend card. I am a really great person, so are there any guys out there who would be interested in me as more than a friend?

2006-06-23 08:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by princesskate235 2 in Singles & Dating

could i have an honest answer from guys or girls who have had a previous similar experience..i really adore this guy deep down and we did use to date thigs went a bit messy i was very stressed about work i acted a little stupid but i really liek him and think he could be mr right...he stares at me when we go to my local bar...i know he is a bit annoyed at me what do you do to get past this..no silly answers please i genuenly need a little sound advice that could help me out in a difficult situation... if i see him out on saturday what should i do how can i get him to think im not wierd he is lovely but i blew it..but sometimes you just know when there is chemistry dont you? Oh and guys just becasue you have been a player in the past doesnt neccessarily mean you will be one all the time...when you met mrs right how did you know what were the signs? should love be plain sailing or is it really difficualt at time give and take...help please. Thankyou

2006-06-23 08:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my name is magan and im 19 yrs old...... i need to know wut its like to be with another girl..... i have become bi-curious and i would really like to know how it is and how i should deal with this i am scared to try it and wut people will think of me>>> please help me!!!!!!!

2006-06-23 08:47:20 · 5 answers · asked by inocent but needy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-23 08:46:58 · 29 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

For those of you that need help....the deed is SEX

2006-06-23 08:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any advice on what to do to feed my cravings?

2006-06-23 08:46:20 · 5 answers · asked by Niece 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it funny that so many are relgious and anti gay commenting on bum sex etc etc...

Then want anal with the missus or to make out with lesbians? or Lesbian porn (which I beleive aint what they really do...

2006-06-23 08:45:57 · 7 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Singles & Dating