I moved to Dayton for school from NewYork. I feel lonely. I don't have a girlfriend, I am not ugly either. I just can't seem to find a girl. Well to be honest, I'm afraid to ask a girl out. Yet I summoned courage to ask a girl out originally agreed only for her to back out, stating that she just started to date someone. It dampened by confidence. I tried to to bar with myself for 30minutes, still didn't find many girls around. The girls present already had men with them. I mean I can just go up to girl out of the blue and ask her out. Please whoever can give me some good advice as to where to hook up with a girl in Dayton will help. Thanks for reading...
2006-06-23 08:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-23 08:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by timeforacatnap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classic
Okay, dating is a numbers game. I was always very successful dating, only because I failed constantly.
My friends would say, "dude, you have a date every weekend, how do you do it". My only response was, "how many girls did you ask out this week? I ask 12 girls out and one said yes"
You have to get over the courage thing or it is never going to work. Think about this: you're sitting on a bench in the Aboretum. Next to you is a girl wearing tight leather pants and holding her note book. She has a gpa of 3.8 and is probably still sore from the backdoor boogie you played the night before. At this moment, do you care about the other 11 girls that said no???? HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I like to meet people doing what I do. I play tennis so sometimes I meet girls there. I ride mountain bikes, meet girls at the park. etc.... If you don't DO anything that contributes to meeting people and walking up to strangers isn't you thing, try this. (this works for my cousin)
He has dogs ( you may not but this idea is solid). I told him to find a place that has a potential for babes. Go there twice a week at the same EXACT time and walk you dogs. If you find a couple girls attractive, keep it up and after a couple weeks (being sure they noticed you or had eye contact with you) make an introduction. If that's all it is, let it be. The next time you go back, do it again. Women are always into men that have women or are talking to women etc.... kinda like it takes money to make money.
Good luck and GET OUT THERE.
2006-06-23 16:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry Stems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any guy friends you can go out with? You'll be more confident if you've got your friends nearby. You can also join many campus activities or even a fraternity...you'll meet so many different people. And as for asking a girl out, I wouldn't walk up to a random girl and ask for a date, but break the ice. Ask her what her name is and what she likes. Tell her she has pretty eyes! Something! But if you don't go up and try to talk to these women, you'll never get a date. You've got to make it happen. Some will say no, but you seem sweet so I'm betting it won't take very long to find one that says yes. If you know a girl a little better, say from one of your classes, try to study with her. Maybe you can help her with a subject that's hard, or vice versa. In that instance, you can certainly ask her for a date. But don't be afraid of rejection. You'll have to get used to it in the real world when you apply for jobs. You'll be rejected for tons of them and you'll have to learn to deal with it. Or what about when you have a job and you ask your boss for a raise and he or she says no? Start dealing with these things now. Once you get into it, you'll be able to shrug off the answer of no.
2006-06-23 15:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start hanging out in places that interest you & where you feel comfortable. Hopefully, youll run into single girls with some of the same interests that will make it easier to strike up a conversation.
2006-06-23 15:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by jennyjennjen76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be scared man, have some confidence. girls don't like scared guys. you have to grow some balls. would you like to be with a shy girl? just try asking a girl out. the worst that could happen is that she tell you no, and then you just pick yourself up and try some other girl. you never get anywhere standin on the sidelines. such is life.
2006-06-23 15:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by thevoicesjustgotlouder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, dude, nice and patient. A girl does not define you.
Your confidence should Not be comming from a girl. It comes from you and your accomplishments.
Just chill out big time and just live. it'll come but if you try too hard, you'll seem desperate and girls will run fast. chill!! :) it's all good.
2006-06-23 15:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, i want you to know something that you are not alone, it does not matter if you believe it or not. God is with you. You know what you need first, is to know your God and ask for his help in choosing a friend, you don't need to search all around. even in your school you will meet friends, just check yourself, be nice to people and live a good life, study your book, help people in need if you can. They will start coming around you. and you have to be careful in choosing not to make a mistake. in all ask for God direction. and take your time ok. happy search.
2006-06-23 16:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by maryprecious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and go about doing the things you always do. Being aloof helps, dont try so hard. Be a little mysterious. People usually try to get the things they just cant have, so dont be so available. trust me, it works
2006-06-23 18:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient
2006-06-23 15:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋