could i have an honest answer from guys or girls who have had a previous similar experience..i really adore this guy deep down and we did use to date thigs went a bit messy i was very stressed about work i acted a little stupid but i really liek him and think he could be mr right...he stares at me when we go to my local bar...i know he is a bit annoyed at me what do you do to get past this..no silly answers please i genuenly need a little sound advice that could help me out in a difficult situation... if i see him out on saturday what should i do how can i get him to think im not wierd he is lovely but i blew it..but sometimes you just know when there is chemistry dont you? Oh and guys just becasue you have been a player in the past doesnt neccessarily mean you will be one all the time...when you met mrs right how did you know what were the signs? should love be plain sailing or is it really difficualt at time give and take...help please. Thankyou
2006-06-23 08:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think when you mess up in a relationship it's hard to earn your trust back. It's the HARDEST thing in the world, and I say it b/c there are things that I said to my fiance over 5 yrs ago that he still brings up to this day ~ and vice versa for him. But talking always helps... I would say if you really think this guy is Mr. Right go up to him on Saturday and talk to him. But if your out having a good time, just continue to have a good time and leave the serious talks for another day, just try to be good friends again AND then see if you can get back together. I think sometimes it's hard to be hurt or confused and jump right back into the same situation, but if your confused and you have fun then he will remember what he likes about you or he'll find out what he doesn't like about you... but either way your better off knowing which is how he feels.
~ Good luck
2006-06-23 08:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by SiLLy-mE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not talk to him? Apologize for any past mistakes you feel you made, and ask him to lunch or for a drink/coffee or something. He may have trust issues with you, due to your past together...and he may choose not to go down that road again (no matter how differently you feel it would be this time)...but you won't know if you don't give it a shot...either way, at least you'll know you tried, and need not have regrets about that.
2006-06-23 08:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local bar Saturday night, fix yourself up nice, smell nice, and casually walk over to the guy and say, "Hey, I was an as* before, Can I buy you a drink?"....in your sexiest voice! There's not a guy in the world that would turn that down! Try it! It'll work. Good Luck!!
2006-06-23 08:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time a girl comes back into my life and seduces me into a new relationship with her ... it's always a mistake. I should have learned from the first time we were together. I hope he keeps his distance.
2006-06-23 09:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it depends on what you did,and how many times you did it,somethings are unforgettable,sorry dont think this is the answer that ur looking for,but what the hell,got 2 pts,he-he
2006-06-23 08:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what you did or said. Tell him you did not mean to do whatever it was you did, but you were stressed and you will never do that again, and prove it to him.
2006-06-23 08:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice but not pushy. If you have already apologized, then don't bring it up again.But you really have to ask yourself this question-Do you want him because he does not want you?
2006-06-23 08:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by educated guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show lots of love
2006-06-23 08:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by ill tell u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋