MY TURN TO ASkKK?

Question

i found out im only allowed to ask 5 Qs so here are two. hopefully, i wont get booted off.

in the past, i alwayssss go out with a girl and then get tired of her after (..ohhhh..) a month or two. but im with this girl and i dont want it to happen with her, i wana get one for real, settle down, and stick with it. running out of things to talk about, gettin bored, wanting something new. *dont wanna be a playaa nomore* any advice on how to avoid it from happening again?

also, i usually talk with other girls in a fashion i should be talking with my gf. but im not sure what it is that makes me not want to talk to her like that. i think its cuz i care about her so much that i talk so nice and politely, when really i should be talkin to her the other way. its like i dont talk to my gf in the way a bf should, but i talk to a girl who im not with in a manner as though i am with her, are u getting it? ?

Answer 1

Well from the way I'm reading this is your showing this girl respect. Where as the other ones are just fly by nights, so you really don't care what you say, because you don't really care what they think of you. Am I in the right ball park here? Well, if I am. You poor sole you. Your falling in love! Continue to treat her with respect! Let her know how your feeling. Don't be one of those moncho guys that think they have to impress woman with there stupid lines. Trust me. It will back fire. Running out of things to talk about? Never. Try not talking. Listen for a change. Let her talk. Get to know her. Get to know her likes and dislikes. Tell her about you. Let her know who you are. Don't want to be a player anymore? Tell her that. Tell her your looking for a real relationship. Take her on a week-end getaway. Have some fun. Find out what it is she enjoys doing. Boating, hiking, camping, fishing. Let her show you her world. If it's meant to be. It will happen. Falling in love can really be exciting. Trust your feelings, and go with whats in your heart. DON'T BLOW IT! Good Luck!

Answer 2

First, if you are bored, try to get her to do new things with you or take her to a new place, ask questions- try these tests below.

2. If you feel uncomfortable talking to your GF the way you talk to other girls, you probably should be with one of them. To have a good relationship you need communication. Try talking the other way to your GF and see her reaction.

Answer 3

maybe it's cuz your really don't have any thing real in common. You can't force some thing that's never going to happen. The you'll dispise her if you realize this like 3 years down the line. Then the whole I wasted so much time with her fight happends. If it doesn't feel right don't force it

Answer 4

You obviously like her alot if not u wouldn't have ask this question but u seem like a very fast pace person that's why ur getting so bored and holding back from showing her ur true colours. Sit down and talk to her let her know exactly how u are feeling tell her wat type of person you are and ask her to help u change this aspect because u really like her and wanna make things work. Try to focus more on making her happy and spend more time getting to know her, wat she likes and dislikes, wat excites her and wat upsets her etc. Be more compassionate and try to listen more. Relationships are all about sacrifice so if it means changing some element about ur personality that ur not comfortable with, then do it.

Answer 5

You should not be with someone just for the sake of being with someone, if it is meant to be then you will not have to go looking for things to talk about, or ways to keep things fresh. They will just be there. SO dont stay with someone "just because"

Answer 6

errrrr, dude? what exactly do you want in a woman? write it down, commit it to memory, and go get her! ...and if you find you have what you want in front of you and still do what your doing???? it's time to get a therapist.