I've got myself a new girlfriend. When doing it "doggy style" I wouldn't mind giving her a firm but gentle spanking. It turns me on but she's the sensitive type. How do I suggest this sort of thing in a polite sort of way that won't be a turn off? I'm willing to let her do it to me also.
2006-06-23 08:57:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just try it during sex and see what her reaction is. I don't see why she wouldn't like it. As long as your not hurting her and it's not a bunch of times she should be ok and if she see's it turns you on, then I wouldn't see why she should have a problem with it! But I would wait til a night when you are both really into it and getting a little kinky. OR you could try ahead of time while playing around while dressed and say something to her about "what if I spank you? woudl that turn you on?" and kinda do it to her while dressed and see what she says! Good luck! I hope you get the good sex you want!!!
2006-06-23 09:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by nalerij 3 · 8⤊ 1⤋
If you can talk about your wants and/or needs to her then this shouldn't be a problem. If she is the shy type that doesn't talk about sex much then you may want to start off by telling her you would like to try new things with her to expand both of your enjoyment ask her if there is anything she would like to do to you then let her do it make a game of it take turns and be fair also have a way to let each other know if it has gone to far you don't want to make each other feel bad that defeats the purpose.
2006-06-23 09:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by can't sleep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you are in the position, just kind of dirty talk with her...tell her she has been a naughty girl and then ask her if she needs a spanking. Then she will either say "oooo yes" or "No don't". That will get you the answer.
2006-06-23 10:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a gentle pat or two, then a slightly harder one. If she wriggles and grins that's probably a sign she wouldn't mind it a bit harder. Lead into it gradually, paying close attention to her body language - you should soon know if she likes it or not. Good luck!
2006-06-23 10:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are getting hot and heavy with her, say something like "Ohhh, naughty girl, I should spank you" in a joking manner. Her reaction will let you know, if she reacts negatively just play it off as a joke.
2006-06-24 01:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Perv!!!. No i'm joking. Ask her about her fantasies- every gal has one. Maybe you could perform it for her, this would make her really comfortable. Then let it rip- tell her about yours. give it a go and let me know how it works.
2006-06-23 09:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never knew a girl who didn't enjoy a bit of spanking.
Especially if you pretended to be the teacher, and if she hadn't done her homework.
Do it gently, though.
Supposed to be fun.
2006-06-23 09:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it to her lightly, dont ask, permission is much harder to ask for than is forgiveness. Start lightly, if she takes to that then get a bit harder. All you can do is try.
2006-06-23 09:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does she react if you playfully pat her bottom? That may give you some idea whether she finds the idea demeaning or arousing
2006-06-23 09:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont spank her hard,ask if she would do it to you.if she agrees suggest its a two way thing.talk about it openly you may be lucky!!
2006-06-23 11:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by spud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋