Every time my ex has the kids for his weekends, it's hard to get them back without the kids being upset. He always wants to keep the kids extra, never wants to bring the kids back at the expected time. If I let him have the extra time, say for another night, he just does this the next day, or he turns off his phone. I used to give him every single weekend, from Fri to Sun night, but he still would get the kids all upset trying to get them extra. It got to the point where it was affecting the kids relationship with me, the more time they spent with him, the harder it was to get them back. Now I've limited him to just every other weekend, and I'm very strict about it. The kids resent me for it, but enough was enough. It was too hard to get them back without a fight and seen in front of the kids. Am I doing the right thing?
2006-06-22
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