I think this was one of the reasons we got together. But I cant help but want to talk about us spending our lives together. After 3 months we told each other we love each other, and spend all our time together. I would like to get a place together (after being with him 4 months) but i'm scared of his reaction. I think he feels the same and tells me he has never been as happy as he is now (and he has been in a few serious relationships!)
2006-06-22 02:53:30 · 10 answers · asked by ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it for a while, 4 months really isn't that long. Leave it till your one year anniversary.
You would make any normal bloke run away by talking of living together after 4 months especially a commitment phobic.
2006-06-22 02:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
commitment is a good thing. the only question might be that you two are moving to fast. so here is my advise, keep living separately for another 3-6 month. that way you can still have time for yourself and more time to think. remember once you move in, you have to tell everyone, meaning you have to tell your family. so if anything happen like a break up or fight, and you come running home, that is not a good thing. so give some more time to think and see if you two are committed to the next level
2006-06-22 09:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky. I'm in kinda the same situation.
There are a few things you could try doing. Maybe try mentioning to him that you want to find your own small place, and would he help you look for one? Analyse his reaction - it may be blatantly obvious that he would want to get a place WITH you - or not.
Its hard to tell what people really want on the inside. Perhaps mention casually whether or not he is the kinda person who likes to properly tie himself down with someone for life.
Best of luck, you sound like you deserve a happy life together!
2006-06-22 10:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hold your horses - you're still in the honeymoon period here - you cant see any bad in this guy but arranging to move in this quick is going to wreck what you guys have going.
Enjoy what you have with each other - savour the newness of your relationship - if you love each other that much you have the rest of your lives to live together.
2006-06-29 08:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months toghether,ur still on the honeymoon period.dont rush in to this,take your time and get to know each other properly and talk to each other about how you both feel and regards of moving in together.he may be happy as he is but the only way to find out is ask him for his opinion first.you wont lose him or anything like that if he is serious about you,he may be glad your talking about it first before jumping the gun.
2006-06-22 10:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by irlamboyo45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you two have grown to love each other, but let it flow on its own, dont rush things yourself, but with time everything will fall in place. Keeping on enjoying the love and wait a bit for the next step.
2006-06-22 10:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop and think about it a little more ,because as you know thing are always good at first,and 9 times out of 10 if it seems to good to be true more than likely it is so be careful and i wish you the best!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 10:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a little soon... 4 months??? Still the first flush of the romance... Wait a year and see where you stand...
If things are stil "happy happy joy joy", then take the next step...
2006-06-22 10:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 choices leave it for a bit longer or ask & you might take the risk of him running a mile
2006-06-28 06:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't it moving a bit fast to be moving in with eachother after 4 months?
2006-06-22 09:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by northukstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋