and say you've fallen in love with someone else, you intend to leave for the new woman why do you sleep with the first partner one last time or just for the hell of it?
is it guilt, or what? why do some men sleep with both women and then lie about it? I am NOT being sarcastic, i need to know
2006-06-22 02:50:33 · 20 answers · asked by Stephanie H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
Can't answer, never had an affair!!
Thanks!!
2006-06-22 02:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by East Bay Punk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is gonna sound wierd, but my boss did this. He was with his fiance for 5 years, and she finally became so annoying that he left her.
Over the following months, he dated loads of women, and slept with most of them. However, he constantly went back to his ex-fiance, maybe due to old habits, maybe because she was the only one who already knew how to please him etc. Dont think me and my boss are...close like that though - he just talks a lot lol.
But yeah, I think people get into habits - if they are with a woman for a while, they assume that she will always be there, so he knows that he can sleep with her, as she wont say no - maybe the new woman isnt putting out yet?
2006-06-22 02:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We tend to, how do you say it, 'bite more than we can chew.' Plus, when you have two separate lives like that, you have the feeling of ADVENTURE in your life. I was in a situation where I was with the same separate woman, while I dated 3 different girls over a period of about 4 years. That 'other woman' was there. We had our physical and emotional connection, Hell, we were soulmates to be honest. But then when it came down to it I chose who I'm with now.
2006-06-22 02:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men learnt to make love from a women remember in the bible what eve did to adam, so now that they have learnt how it is done no one can stop them. Women will go on and on wondering what goes on in their heards, but will never get the answer. They just love doing it even more.
2006-06-22 02:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a guy but i imagine same reasons women have affairs :)
feeling hurt, incomplete, revengeful, frustrated... or just because you can get away with it.
women do it to, you know. they are just much, much better at not getting caught. lol.
i mean, shame, shame.
if my SO never cheats on me and I know I can trust them, I'd never do it. Also, if you treasure the relationship, you will not chance the ruin of it. Unless it's not that big of a deal.
2006-06-22 03:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by mesvetka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had an affair so I can't truly answer this. Fact of life: Women wants one man to take care of all her needs and Men wants all women to take care of his one need!
2006-06-22 02:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Retarded Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men can't be honest... They need to see if they can get away with it... And the offer of sex is never turned down by and man, immaterial of what else is going on... We are scum, we are slim!!!
2006-06-22 03:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that guys just believe that they will get away with having there cake and eating it too.
They lie because its in there nature to do so.
2006-06-22 03:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do do this. It's been done to me. It's quite hurtful, but I guess they haven't quite made their minds up until that point. Unless I'm just crap in bed!
2006-06-22 02:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by K38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God helps those guys that do that fit into that description. I'm not a moralist but I can't just do that kind of a thing. Cheers!
2006-06-22 02:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋