i been living with my gf of 3 years now in our own little apartment... thing is..we have nothing in common, im fairly attracted to her,and we are eachothers' Firsttime lovers... yet she wants to get married,have kids,get a little home and grow up together..i done confronted her bout waiting and she agreed....yet i want to meet other women possible to hookup..and she has me whipped.. example.....i can't look at a single female or even have female friends without her thinking im sexually thinking bout that female..which usually im not...
its getting to the point where i just wanna go meet some woman and move in with her...
any suggestions??
2006-06-22 02:36:43 · 8 answers · asked by Iceman 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw... I am 19 years old and shes 20
i havnt had a female friend since 16....and we been going out for almost 4 years actually.
2006-06-22 02:41:48 · update #1
Discuss with her about dating other people. At the age of 19 this is what you both should be doing before making a commitment to each other. In a few short years you will find yourself cheating on her just to satisfy your curiosity. A " First Love" will always be special and it's also only human to feel the way you do. Your answer lays within. Act on it for both your sakes.
2006-06-22 03:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by teamplayer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sound like you are not serous about her. Let her know how you really feel. Also look at what type of person she is. If she is a good women you might rethink the hole thing. I had a great women in high school and left her for another. BIG issues with the second. MY credit went down. Would not look after our children. Cleaning the house was not her job. working ,to this day is what some one else does, not her.
I had to leave and start over. Get the message. Try and find a answer that will work for both of you. Good Luck.
2006-06-22 09:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Robert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is very insecure and controling. I would suggest it is time to end the relationship if you are this unhappy. Also, if you are already wanting to meet other women then the relationship is already over. Sounds like maybe she pushed you in that direction though. Sit her down and explain that she is smothering you with all her accusations and is in fact pushing you out the door rather than making you want to marry her.
2006-06-22 09:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by blackrose9902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're only 19. You have no idea of the cool things to experience in life. If you're that itchy and she's that insecure this young, that's not a good thing. I say dump her. Get out, experince some cool wierd freak **** and then, when you're ready, settle down with no regrets.
2006-06-22 09:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by G G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck, dude. Just remember that things don't get BETTER after marriage...if she's that insecure where you can't look at another woman? It'll only get worse after you're married.
2006-06-22 09:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, if you need to meet other girls and see how it feels to have other girls, do it, but if you think you dont want to loose what you have with your girl, keep things the way they are.
2006-06-22 09:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Tico Roots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two are already married.
2006-06-22 10:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Dondare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eather work it out or get out of the relationship
2006-06-22 09:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy_rob420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋