I'm American 43 and never married. My fiance is Asian and 33 and never married. We have lived together for 4 years. We both enjoy being together but have seperate groups of friends and interests. Sex life has slowed down but OK.
I often travel to Asia on business for a month or more and sometimes have casual relationships with other women. I've told my fiance that I'm no angel on the road. She said it's OK as long as I'm carful.
I asked her to marry me recently. I've thought about it a long time and decided I do want to have a kid since everyone says its so great. She has always wanted one. I plan to continue to have outside women and, again, she said OK. Big wedding in the works.
It seems the perfect European solution - home, wife, kids, mistriss but my American holywood cultural background says this is not going to work.
Question - Can one have it all? Can I get married, have kids, fool around a little?
Or should I just break it off and be single?
2006-06-22
18:36:56
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Marriage & Divorce