if you have been engaged for a few months and your fianc'e wanted to go celebrate there bestfriends birthday at a club and they came home at 2:00am would you be upset? oh and they have not be out with there friends for a year and a half.
2006-06-22 18:42:49 · 11 answers · asked by loveableladee1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well when I was engaged to my fiance I went out every saturday and usually did not come back home till like maybe 5 or 6 in the morning. I went out with my cousin and some of her friends and we went out to the same spot every weekend. My Fiance did not mind. I mean its jut like him going to hang with the boys. They might not go to a club but they are hanging out and sometimes might go to a bar for a drink or something so I dont see anything wrong with it at all. And no I would not be upset
2006-06-22 18:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by tysha30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be upset if my man came home at 2a.m from the club if it was for the whole friend's birthday because of the fact that it has been a year and a half since they'd been out last. if it were all the time that they were out clubbing and coming home at that time all the time then you have a reason to be upset. besides, they came home to you so obviously they are with you because they love you. and some clubs don't even start getting busy until around midnight anyways so 2 a.m. is not bad.
2006-06-22 18:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Applebottom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say "Yes"
If my spouse would tell me she is going out with the girls to the club with her girlfriends (Girls Night Out) I would let her go. A relationship requires trust and if you don't have that then your relationship is already heading for trouble. Have a great time and have a drink for me.
2006-06-22 18:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you living in Victorian Society? What are you afraid of? Sex is like shaking hands now. Are you going to prevent your wife to shake hands with even unknown persons? The day you say 'no' to her on this issue, you are definitely disengaging yourself from her and be sure you are not going to have any girlfriend. Choice is yours.
2006-06-22 18:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would let my fiancee go out and it is critical that you establish that trust with him to allow hi to do so too. Don't be overprotective, if he really love you, he wouldn't do nothing to hurt you. Trust him this one time If he blows it you will know next time
2006-06-22 18:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mstoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for almost 4 years. My husband can go out with his friends on occasion same as I can go out with mine. We trust each other.
2006-06-22 18:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well youre lucky they came home at 2 am..mine came home at 6 am! they havent been out in a while then it should be ok...there shouldnt be a cause for concern..its ok to go out once in a while..also offer to go with him or ask him to go out with you!
2006-06-22 18:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be angry with them...just because you married doesent mean that you are one person and that he cant have fun on thier own. go out and some have fun on your own with your friends. you trusted him enough to commit to him so now have some faith and trust him.
2006-06-22 18:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by tiny small 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him there should not be a problem. It sounds like you don't.
2006-06-22 18:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... trust is the basis
2006-06-22 18:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋