2006-06-22 18:31:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are potentially whatever you wish, whatever you think about, and you are becoming normal this minute as you desire to be so. Its in your mind and spirit. The gayness is certainly not something of body; it is in the mind, the chemical condition to some extent. Start thinking normally, pray for normality. Watch and emulate normal people. Dress like normal people. Allow only thougfhts of normalcy into your mind.It is just a matter of time. As your mind is strong you are normal as you have the maturity to wish it so, to want it to, to will it so. So shall it be.
2006-06-22 18:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Who says you aren't normal now, the way you are? But, if you really want to become a straight guy then follow their examples. Pick one man who you know for a fact is straight that you admire, and learn by watching, dressing, and being as close to his actions as possible. You then must practice until it becomes natural to you. If you really want to change who you are expect to work at it, and don't give up. Good luck.
2006-06-22 18:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by ladywriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, who is making you feel NOT NORMAL because you are gay??? Are YOU not happy, or is someone that you care about making you question yourself because THEY are not happy??? If you are gay, you are gay, it is NOT a decision!!! And you can't "change back" just to make it easier for someone else! You are who you are, you love who you love, these things can't be helped. There are support groups for you to help you through this time in your life, and there are groups to help the people who cannot deal with the fact that you are gay! Stand up for yourself, you deserve the same love and respect a "STRAIGHT" person does!!!
2006-06-22 18:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can act straight but, i have never seen converting. there are many aspects. religious views are one. i had to stop going to church when i came out. also, depending on where you live, you might be shunned a lot more. i had to move from one state to another. only my best friends here know about me. i am also not a flamer. i act straight. converting is pretty much not plausable because recently it has been deamed that sexuality is genetic. not proven though. i am not saying that your parents are gay. if they were, you wouldn't be here. maybe the gene came from an aunt or uncle or somebody else and was passed down to you. i love being gay. don't feel guilty.
2006-06-22 18:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to change something you can embrace? You can try to act straight and have a girl friend, but if you are gay then you cant change it. You may end up hurting the girl by leading her to belive you love her. You cant love her man, you love guys, thats all.
2006-06-22 19:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by curious cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself why? I am a gay man I dated women before I accepted myself. I wanted to be straight but I hated myself for it. now I am normal gay guy
2006-06-23 21:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by jk078645 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these ppl trying to convince you that it is impossible are idiots. If you want to change, then yes it is possible. I don't believe that whole born with it crap. Lots of ppl just decide to be that way. If someone can go from being born straight to becoming gay, then why couldn't you change.
2006-06-22 18:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u may try a relation with a nice woman or girl, if not u may try going to doctor for hormonal therapy sometimes works, first try to grow a beard or moustache and cut your hair short , take out rings piercings and no tint in the hair or nails, then use clothes with colors and features really for men, dont use perfumes, try to exercise tough,if all things u try not working after a year for example so give up, take the lip stick and forget about everything.good luck
2006-06-22 18:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I don't think that's going to happen cause u like what u like! I honestly think that u are just coming out in the open, and people are treating u hatefully, but u are going to haev to figure out a way to live ur life! Try going out with females if u think that will make u happy, or a transexual, but in the end u like who u like! Good Luck!
2006-06-22 18:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by babyg_co07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Best you can hope for is that you're not really gay and that you find women attractive as well. But you won't change the fact that you like men.
2006-06-22 22:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋