Family & Relationships - 16 June 2006

39 year old male

2006-06-16 11:52:30 · 5 answers · asked by Out of Practice 1 in Singles & Dating

I sincerely believe I have a healthy self-esteem. I mean, I don't think low of myself nor I think anybody is better than me. But when it comes to romance, I notice that I'm a very bittered man. I was rejected often by the opposite sex when I was started noticing girls while I was growing. I'm terrified of rejection and at the same time I ask myself what's the worst it can happen, and we all know that being told "no" it's about it. But I'm still afraid and bittered and I can't seem to get over my teenage experiences. Please don't ask me to visit a dr. because I don't trust them at all. How can I overcome this bitterness and phobia of rejection? I'm 33 yrs. old and I'd like to have a "normal" socilal life with women. Any ideas?

2006-06-16 11:52:21 · 6 answers · asked by MARSHALL 1 in Singles & Dating

Im in a long distance relationship for 1year and 7months and my boyfriend hasnt come and visite me yet do you know why he hasnt? he told me that his parents doesnt want him to travel alone.. is it really that or is it that thy dunt like me? i mean just yesterday he was near his mother and i told him to say hi to her for me and he did... i asked him wut did she say and he told me she smiled... hello??? am gonna be ur future daughter in law dunt u care to say hi back... i dont think he's parents approve of me what so think?

**LIL MISS VIXION**

2006-06-16 11:51:23 · 9 answers · asked by LIL MISS VIXION 5 in Singles & Dating

did they rule?

2006-06-16 11:50:47 · 18 answers · asked by imurhuckleberry 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-16 11:50:44 · 16 answers · asked by speak 2 in Singles & Dating

what im trying to say is can your love life still grow if you found out that your husband of 6 yrs cheated, and is truely sorry for this, not to mention it was the 1st time he cheated, or should i just not waste my time. did i mention the fact that the girl he cheated on me with got pregnant???????

2006-06-16 11:50:37 · 18 answers · asked by jayrok027 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If so what kind of magic?

2006-06-16 11:49:00 · 5 answers · asked by Samantha S 2 in Friends

My bf told me yesterday that at work this girl kept grabbing his crotch. The thing that makes me mad is that he didn't tell her stop. She did like 3 times. He said it didn't make him uncomfortable because she's hot? My first instinct is to dump him . What do you think ?

2006-06-16 11:48:46 · 32 answers · asked by Lil Ma 1 in Singles & Dating

he is a friend of mine and my husbands. he is also married with children. Before you judge me, let me tell you i know it was wrong, it is over now. our chat went from friendly to sexual. very sexual, a few pictures, and detailed chat. we had planned to meet but it didn't work out. I finally ended it because I was tierd of him chatting with me then not having any contact with me for days, or weeks. it has been over a month now and all i do is think of him and miss him so much. it has affected my emotions to where i am in depression and my moods are up and down. it hurts me too because here i am hurting and he is fine with his grand life. anyway i know this is my consequence i'm just wondering if anyone has gone through something similar and how did you get over it???

2006-06-16 11:48:40 · 21 answers · asked by missy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband always turns me down for sex,and he never gos down on me,iam a clean and good looking girl who is wild in bed,so why isnt he turned on by me anymore?

2006-06-16 11:48:29 · 10 answers · asked by jenna leigh j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-16 11:47:29 · 5 answers · asked by Annie O 2 in Family

My guy friend goes out with my cousin,but I sometimes read his emails,and he cybers with other girls. I'm afraid to tell my cousin b/c she might not believe me,but I don't want her feelings to get hurt....what should I do?

2006-06-16 11:46:55 · 16 answers · asked by Pr|ncess 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy he's a lil older then i am and i like him and i think he likes me but how do i know for sure cause ever ytime i look at him he's alway looking at me to. but how do i know for sure?

2006-06-16 11:46:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-16 11:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

It's been a couple of weeks since my boyfriend of 2 yrs broke up with me. I'm trying to deal with it, and tell myself that time heals all wounds but it's really hard. Not ony was he a boyfriend, but he was my best friend. We were such a huge part of each other's lives, and now we barely talk. He sends me texts and says he misses me..but it all comes back to the same thing. He just doesn't think we are meant to be. Will I get over this..what should I do? On top of this, is the fear that I will never feel this way about someone again.

2006-06-16 11:45:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-16 11:44:54 · 34 answers · asked by kim 1 in Weddings

2006-06-16 11:44:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it normal for my boyfriend not calling me for a few days? i always accuse him of cheating on me and he keep telling me no and he laught's at me saying haha u think am gonna cheat on u wut kind of person do u think i am and if i do who am i gonna cheat on you with? and i say one of ur bitches that i don't know about ... but the thing is he's a shy guy and he's too innocent i know he's not doing anything but still i wonder wut he did that he didnt get a chance to contact me that long...
and i know a relationship should be built on trust... i trust him an all but still why havnt he call me? he told me he's busy with school and i believe him... but aren't u supposed to talk to ur girlfriend everyday? don't you wanna know wut she did all day long?

can someone help?? i really need to know wut to do..
thanx alot

**LIL MISS VIXION**

2006-06-16 11:43:48 · 17 answers · asked by LIL MISS VIXION 5 in Singles & Dating

My girlf is 28. I'm 35. Is a 28 year old girl still young to you?

2006-06-16 11:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by whoremonger 1 in Singles & Dating

I had this dream last night that was sort of crazy. To start, I am 13. In the dream, my mom had another baby boy. His name was Ewech, if I remember correctly. Anyway, I carried Ewech, who was incredibly smart for a newborn baby, everywhere I went. I carried him to a rock, and he began climbing... and turned into a monkey 0_o (keep reading)... he stayed like that for the rest of the dream. I went to school with him, monkey form and all. Then a small gap in the dream, and I'm without Ewech. I'm in the school office (which appears to look exactly like my living room...) with my friends older bro (Zach, who I have a sort of hatred for) and his friend (who in real life does not exist and has no name in the dream). Anyway, while I'm there in the 'office', Zach sets me down to watch him play a computer game. After watching him for awhile, his friend comes in and begins talking to me. He has a thick Romanian accent, slicked back black hair, and a wonderful smile. (read more in details)

2006-06-16 11:41:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I live with a guy we have 3 kids together i go to school and he keeps putting me down saying that im dumb calls me names all the time but i have no money i need to get out i need a job i cant work because he wont work with my schdule so it makes everthing so hard to leave what can i do?

2006-06-16 11:41:19 · 4 answers · asked by slape78 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-16 11:41:15 · 5 answers · asked by khalil k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-16 11:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my best friend is a lesbian,but I'm straight. Should I tell her that I don't feel the same way about her? Or what should I do?

2006-06-16 11:40:47 · 12 answers · asked by Pr|ncess 1 in Friends

I have talked to her ex, and he says she was awesome in bed with him. (He made a few ammature porn films w/ other gorgeous girls be4 her, so he has a rep of being good in bed). She says my fascination with collecting porn and drawing flawless women while I'm still w/ her makes her feel miniscule. Is it possible maybe I don't make her feel beautiful like her past lovers obviously have?

2006-06-16 11:40:28 · 6 answers · asked by whoremonger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so here is the situation. I recently meet a great guy that is 17. I am 19 and we have been sorta seeing each other. I feel like I am doing something wrong because he isnt 18 yet, we havent had sex or anything, just made out. Is it wrong to date someone who is younger than you?

2006-06-16 11:39:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do I have to do to get "nice" girls to go beyond my looks and focus in on my personality? The barbies of the world do not do it for me. The women I am interested are so intimidated because they assume that "Kens" only like to date "Barbies." Help!!!

2006-06-16 11:38:07 · 12 answers · asked by Cody D 1 in Singles & Dating

im in love with him!
but, skater punk or not, hes cluless.
we exchanged shoe laces today...

any how, im condsidered to be labeled in my scool as "punk" or "alternative".but i definetly cant skateboard!
any one know what they look for in a girl?
much thanks,
peace.

2006-06-16 11:37:55 · 19 answers · asked by Ambiguous-Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

iam a 32yr old married woman,and my husband has cheated so many times,so i had cheated on him a few times to get even,before i cheated i tryed to talk to him and tryed to make him go to counsling with me but he would just turn it into a fight and wouldnt go for help,i also told him i was going to leave him but i couldnt get myself to do it,I have kids and i dont work and i have no where to go,my moms house is way to small she only has 2 bed rooms and 1 is hers and the other is my brothers.he has been talking to girls on the computer lately,and he is starting to get a little abusive,he tells me if i leave he will get a job off the books so he cant pay child support and he says i cant get another guy even if we devorce cause he will kill the guy and hurt me bad.my guy friend is coming out next week from C.A. to visit and he wants to hang out and talk to me,we've fulled around about 2yrs ago and i dont know if i should hang out with him or not,what should i do about this whole thing?

2006-06-16 11:37:34 · 7 answers · asked by jenna leigh j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i told him that if he wants to keep me he has to forget about the mistake he made behind my back that means forgetting about the child, and everything that goes along with it, am i wrong in saying so, weve been married for 6 years, he cheated last year because i left the country for 8 mos on business. he just found out that this ho was pregnant by him and recently concieved a baby boy shes not in this country with us nor is the baby she in jamaica, just wanna know if im wrong because i cant live with the fact that my husband of 6 years concieved a child by someone else, if i havwe to accept it than we are finished, because i love him to much to have these feelings keep haunting me, hes willing to forget. answers please desperate

2006-06-16 11:37:22 · 9 answers · asked by jayrok027 2 in Marriage & Divorce