my husband always turns me down for sex,and he never gos down on me,iam a clean and good looking girl who is wild in bed,so why isnt he turned on by me anymore?
2006-06-16 11:48:29 · 10 answers · asked by jenna leigh j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is another somewhere.
When a man loses interest, it can be: 1) sick 2) someone else 3) can no longer do it (age)
They probably are not sick or old. So, it must be someone else.
See if you can detect slight variations in their actions and how they dress/smell.
2006-06-16 11:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by javarick 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are a lot of things that can cause this:
1. He is taking a medicine that keeps him from performing the way he expect.
2. He have problems at work, those can hurt you more than you think.
3. He is tired, tiredness can cause lack of desire.
Anyway we could think wrong about his reasons, try to talk to him. I'm not saying to confront him, just talk...if he is feeling down maybe you need to lift up his morale...make him feel like a stud again...
Lingerie can help, or get a hair cut...you know?? he might get interested into that again. Keep trying don't give up...
love him no matter what...
good luck
2006-06-16 19:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by texraider27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband could be having some emotional problems that may have affected him physically, and he could feel ashamed. Don't automatically assume the worse. You need to talk to your husband, and get a clear picture from him on what's going on with him. That is your responsibility.
Pray before you talk to him because God will give you peace, and let you know when your husband is ready to tell you what's going on, whatever that maybe. Perfect timing could mean an argument, or heartfelt conversation, so timing is EVERYTHING.
But talk to him. Don't be passive about this because it can cause more damage to your marriage.
Keep the Faith!
2006-06-16 19:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make up your mind and divorce him. He's obviously getting it elsewhere. Your life is not over .. dust yourself off and start again...you're alive arent you? I guarantee you some other man will worship the ground you walk on and cherish your kids (sources)
2006-06-16 19:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by New direction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same husband who you said cheated on you many times and you also cheated on him and he was abusive towards you?
Sounds like your sex life is the least of your worries...
2006-06-16 18:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by SeveralTimesWrong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably need to suck his balls or his cock the right way. Have you ever put some dripping ice on your husband body and then lick him up and down.
2006-06-16 18:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by capone354 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should see his doctor. It might just be ED, but sometimes ED can be a symptom for a more serious problem.
2006-06-16 18:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ain't getting any from you he is getting it somewhere.I would leave if i was you.
2006-06-16 18:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get ahold of me
2006-06-16 18:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmmm i dunno buy some toys and have your own party...
2006-06-16 18:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋