What do I have to do to get "nice" girls to go beyond my looks and focus in on my personality? The barbies of the world do not do it for me. The women I am interested are so intimidated because they assume that "Kens" only like to date "Barbies." Help!!!
2006-06-16 11:38:07 · 12 answers · asked by Cody D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know, but if you find out please tell me. It is so hard when every woman I meet ends up getting so nervous when they are blinded by my radiating good looks and magnetic personality that they can't even speak anymore ...they get so nervous they don't even want to give me their phone number or go out with me anymore ...poor silly girls, they just don't know that deep inside under this perfect body and adorable face is a warm loving heart that would care for all of them ...if they could only overcome their fear of my good looks !!!
(Being Ironic ...meeeee ....NAAAAAAH !!!) :-) :-) :-)
2006-06-16 12:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by p.g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are intimidated by good looking men. I myself am not a barbie. I'm not pencil thin, in fact I could stand to lose about 15 pounds. I am very pretty, smart, funny, have a great personality, and a heart of gold. I tend to look past a man's looks to get to what's on the inside. That's where the good stuff is. But then again, I'm a little older (34) so maybe that's it. Possibly you're just not looking in the right places or the right age groups. Best of luck to you!!
2006-06-16 11:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol Well, why are guys intimidated by a normal looking girl?? Why do us wholesome Girl Next door girls get over looked by the barbies? Or why do guys think that girls like me, girl next door, will turn them down?? I feel for ya!! I'm going through the same thing except I'm nothing like a barbie.
2006-06-16 11:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to consider that those women who are intimidated by your looks are probably not truly interested in getting to know you as a person - they have already made up their minds about you.
You'll find that there are many insecure women around who are afraid to be with a good looking guy because they know that other women will want their man, and they fear that someone will steal their man from her.
You need to find someone with whom you hold an interest - and when you find her, you'll know. She will also be interesting in getting to know the real you.
Just don't give up - she is out there - and once you find each other, you'll know.
Good Luck!
2006-06-16 11:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women are like that. Its true. But not all are like that. There are women who go for the personality of a guy and not his looks. My friend asked me the same question I told him that he will find a nice girl that likes his personality and not he looks. Hope everyone else can help you more. Have a nice day bye now.
2006-06-16 11:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by DarkFire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, I am not intimidated by a good looking man. You know how you can get women to look beyond your personality by just having one.
2006-06-16 11:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are women intimidated by good-looking men?
I thought that most women believe that their v*gina is the only and best v*gina in the world and that they are doing us guys a favor by sharing it with us.
2006-06-16 11:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some women who aren't ''barbies'' think that they aren't on yalls level of looks wise they think that if they aren't enough you ll inevitably end up cheating on them,,,what you should do is get your self in the friend zone make it completely understandable that all you want is friendship...then let her get the know who u REALLY are
2006-06-16 11:43:06 · answer #8 · answered by chocolate_thunda2800 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, instead of waiting for the "nice" girls to aproach you, then you need to aproach them. Besides, why are girls only "nice" or "Barbie"? Why is it so black and white?
2006-06-16 11:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women probably feel there not good enough for a really good looking guy. that they themselves arnt good looking. some ppl dont realise that its not looks alont that make the person. personality counts for a large part
2006-06-16 11:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by intrigue_ m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋