I left a letter for my husband stating that I need more help around the house from him, or he can leave in 2 weeks. My husband suffers from chronic pain and I think that he is also depressed. I work all day (the docs won't let him), pick up the kids from the sitters (he cannot care for them all day), fix dinner, and put the kids to bed. Weekends I do laundry, wash dishes, do shopping and we visit friends in the evenings. I am so TIRED. I get no rest except for maybe an hour between putting our boys to bed and going to bed myself. While I'm at work my hubby is on the computer or sleeping most of the day. He's made dinner once in the last month and a half (I started a new job), the day I had my tubes tied. I know the ultimatum will p*** him off, but I know that this was the right thing to do. I'm off work in a half hour and I'm kind of affraid to face him. He's not a violent person, but when he's mad he shuts me out.
Any words of encouragement?
2006-06-15
11:26:56
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kirsty h
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Marriage & Divorce