Alright, so she had a 6 month affair on me and cleaned out the house and bank account. We hadn't talked in about 5 months when she called me out of the blue, I forgave her and decided it might be worth trying to work out. Anyhow, one of my biggest pet peeves was that she never returned my phone calls and rarely picked up the phone...
Soooo, I was waiting for her to give me a call last Saturday and didn't hear from her (no big surprise). I ended up going home with someone else. I've since avoided her like a plague.
At this point I'm numb over the issue but would really like to know what the hell she was thinking. Why even bother apologizing for everything to only come back and pull the same crap all over again? It really doesn't matter as the only thing I'm ever going to say to her again is "SIGN THE DAMN PAPERS" but I really feel she has sociopathic qualities and might need professional help.
Any feedback is appreciated...
2006-06-15 11:25:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm going through the same thing. Stay strong. Stick with your gut feel. She very well may be a sociopath but that's entirely up to her to get professional help. My therapist outright told my wife to get help. My wife insists there's nothing wrong with her.
2006-06-15 11:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 13⤊ 6⤋
Out with the old & in with the new!!!! Good luck guy!!!!
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2006-06-15 11:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advise I can give you on this one is that she needs to sign the papers. If she cheated on you thens he never really loved you. My finace and I am are preparing to get married in a month and half, I can't imagin cheating on him I love him that much, and he loves me that much. Neither of us would even think about cheating.. you need peace in your life....find someone new and have her sign those papers....then NEVER LOOK BACK
2006-06-15 11:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by msoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that there is a chance for you and your wife to get back together then you should try it. Get into couples therapy and try to work things out.
2006-06-15 11:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, get a divorce
2006-06-15 11:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋