why do u men hide it from your wives? i think it is an awesome thing i love doing it together. just curious what the big secret about it is???when married or in a long term that is. being single can be a lot different
2006-06-15 11:28:00 · 15 answers · asked by ford_lovergirl_69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think all men do that. There are MANY men who do and MANY men who don't. If a man does hide it, it may be because of shame.
2006-06-15 17:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Trent 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not married, but I don't hide the fact. Any guy that does is a liar. Wow, second answer on masturbating today. I think that the guy might be ashamed, but I know that most women and men do it, and I am not ashamed of it. I guess it can be a weird situation if someone just starts doing it while you are sitting there, but if it is a mutual thing in the right situation, I see nothing wrong!
2006-06-15 11:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife thinks it is nasty, but when I get turned down 5 or 6 nights in a row I will take care of it myself. I hide it because I am ashamed I have to go through this I will try and explain it. I am not a bad lookin guy, I have women that would love to go out with me. But I am married I am not into cheating and honestly I would never be able to hold onto more than one woman. Another reason my wife does not like it is she thinks I would be thinking of someone else and not her.
2006-06-15 12:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the strength of your relationship, how well you get along, how deep your respect for each other goes, how open you are sexually, how creative and exploring in your sexuality you are, and how much you love/care to see and know it.
Guys can and WILL hide their interests when they think the woman they are with doesn't approve. It sucks, but they simply are not sure how else to deal with things (besides privately) since their significant other (SO) doesn't do all they can to ensure EVERYTHING is cool, it will all be ok out in the open, etc...
Ask your SO what more you can do to be open, uninhibited, loving, supportive......... ensure too, that you let the SO know that you ACCEPT them, the way they are, that you love and support them for what all they do, no matter what......... then LIVE that way!
Good luck and take care.
2006-06-18 04:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by megettingbetter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, with some, there is no problem jacking it with or without them. currently, my wife, thinks it's the end of the world or something, as if she cares, she don't put out, so what am I supposed to do, quit??? I doubt it, I jack off because I have no other option, well besides, a friend or two on the side. She said it is okay, as long as I keep it quiet so, I do. Both the side "friends" and the masturbating. The others don't mind it. They like it when we mutually masturbate.
2006-06-15 11:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by likit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hide masterbating? Since when?
2006-06-15 11:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by teetee's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you bring it up Im curious too. Whats the big deal? Guys like to watch women masterbate, why cant we watch you?
2006-06-15 11:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care to masturbate i try to wait for her to take care of it for me lol. I am not ashamed and would not hide it from her though. She does not hide it from me.
2006-06-15 11:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we think of another woman and if we see the wife cant be able to reach that point.
do you let him see you playing ?
2006-06-15 18:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by glennmettlen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive found that to be the case when they do it obsessively with their computers, maybe because there gets to be a point when its just weird.
2006-06-15 13:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋