Honey...I had a girlfriend when I was your age...and we thought that we loved each other...we never fought, we never argued, we loved the same things...in the end though, she gave in to peer pressure becuase all of her friends were making fun of her...
Just ask yourself (yourselves) if you're happy...and if you are willing to stick wit her and not give up because of what other people think...then keep the relationship...all that matters is that you love eachother and want to stick together...
Another thing is...when I told my parents I was bisexual, they tried to get me into counseling so that I could "change my ways to what is right"...I told them to screw off....so I would postpone the telling of parents to...well...when your older...
But just remember...whatever you think is best....follow your heart...it knows best...
2006-06-15 11:32:26
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answered by randina1988 2
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First off I am not a lesbian, but I would like to share some advise with you. I think at the tender age of 15 there should be more for you to do besides become sexually active. But on the other hand that is all you see advertised, commercials, videos, cartoons, sitcoms,,,, it is hard for children to stay children. The media is growing y'all up so fast !!! Young lady try talking to your mother or someone about what is going on with you. Try to get to the heart of the matter. You will have to ask yourself some very serious questions... like when did this start, where did this feeling come from,,,,, you will not be a disgrace to your parents... Parents have unconditional love, although they don't always show it... it is something about coming out the womb (the bond) is just there...
Before you and your friend explore anything else get those questions answered. If you need to talk with someone email me... I will listen..
2006-06-15 18:40:15
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answered by T.B 2
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If by "being lesbian" you mean having a sexual relationship, you should definitely hold off on that. Sex complicates things, and you don't need to be dealing with those kinds of extra pressures.
If by "being lesbian" you mean dating, kissing, holding hands... that is something you will have to decide for yourself. Its not easy being gay in a straight world....Especially at your age.
2006-06-21 00:31:19
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answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5
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Is there anything better for you to do like reading a good book. Try that and don't be a disgrace to your parents.
2006-06-15 18:29:56
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answered by alpha & omega 6
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if ur ever gonna hav sex wit a girl count me in cause u girlz need a man for the job.
2006-06-15 18:41:55
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answered by milad h 1
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your exploring... i think it's fine but just keep yourself open to the idea of guys as well.....
just be careful!
2006-06-15 18:27:32
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answered by Freakangel 2
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im a bi maybe u should try that betta
2006-06-15 18:35:00
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answered by ~SEXII MAMII~ 2
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uh, YEAH
2006-06-15 18:26:45
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answered by sexygrl420 2
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Can I watch???? PLEEZEEEEEEEEEE??????????
2006-06-15 18:28:29
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answered by Anonymous
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