im not stereotyping any gender when it comes to this question because man or woman -- there is always the possibility to cheat. i've met many people who have cheated on their spouses because they're looking for something that their spouses can no longer give (read: sex). but when i ask them "why don't you separate with your spouse then? give them and yourself a chance to move on and find someone who can satisfy you?" they'd say "i still love him/her" then i'd ask "if you love this person, why did you cheat then?!" -- i don't think sex is an acceptable reason for cheating. obviously, these people didn't marry for love, but for lust. because if you love a person, no matter how imperfect he/she is... you'd never replace him/her with somebody else. so why do married people cheat (well not all of course.) instead of cheating, why not just separate with their spouses?
2006-06-12
03:34:42
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