Five years later he said he would marry WHEN he retires. By then I was in love, committed, and invested emotionally, and financially.
I worked 20 years FOR US, he worked 20 years FOR HIM. (He never contributed to my support). Twenty years later we are retired and unmarried.
Because of the nature of my work, I am not entitled to social security, therefore instead of being comfortable I need to be concerned whether my savings will last as long as I do.
I would get a spouse's share of Social Security if we married without it costing him a cent and we could enjoy the fruits of OUR labor knowing that when we are really old, even if our savings was gone, OUR Social Security would be enough to be comfortable.
He frankly lied, feigning not remembering that he said that he would marry.
If we parted company because of his deceit would he owe me morally? Legally? ,,,Because of his lies, after a hard life I feel robbed of the bright future that I looked forward to.
2006-06-12
02:26:25
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