Five years later he said he would marry WHEN he retires. By then I was in love, committed, and invested emotionally, and financially.
I worked 20 years FOR US, he worked 20 years FOR HIM. (He never contributed to my support). Twenty years later we are retired and unmarried.
Because of the nature of my work, I am not entitled to social security, therefore instead of being comfortable I need to be concerned whether my savings will last as long as I do.
I would get a spouse's share of Social Security if we married without it costing him a cent and we could enjoy the fruits of OUR labor knowing that when we are really old, even if our savings was gone, OUR Social Security would be enough to be comfortable.
He frankly lied, feigning not remembering that he said that he would marry.
If we parted company because of his deceit would he owe me morally? Legally? ,,,Because of his lies, after a hard life I feel robbed of the bright future that I looked forward to.
2006-06-12 02:26:25 · 8 answers · asked by hello_ms_moore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What about this question you asked three days ago??
My soul mate is my friends ex-wife. Can I expect the future to work out.?
8 weeks ago I started hanging out with my friend and his wife. I'll call her Annie. Annie told me that she was getting a divorce. She also told me that I was her soulmate. The ink was no sooner dry on her divorce decree when I realized I was feeling the same way.
Annie continues to live and sleep with her ex-husband, "for the kids".
Annie is also a good friend of my last relationship even though they are currently having a huge disagreement.
I realize our love is complicated but can I expect the future to work itself out with a loving soulmate connection like we have?
I do not take this lightly, I have not loved for many years.
Are you the "he" or the "she" or are you just conning us all with silliness to see what we will say?
2006-06-12 02:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really sorry,u indeed had a very bad treat from the one whom you loved. whatever we say now will be like preaching becoz things had already happened.
why don't you move out from this frustrating life?
and if he is not married what does he intent to do with whatever he owes?
and if you had stayed for twenty years together can't you prove in the court if you file a peetition too?
2006-06-12 09:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Hon. You were a fool to stay so long. He may owe you morally but you can attest to his moral standard. No one has a bright future. Get out and move on.
2006-06-12 09:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that, but as far as I know he would owe you nothing because you aren't married. Even if you took him to court on the grounds that you to lived like husband and wife even though you weren't it's very hard to prove.
2006-06-12 09:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing, i feel for u.
after putting so much efort and love into something and then getting hit with a brick wall
im sorry sweety but u will have to make this desicion with you heart and head with alot of will power
remeber be strong :)
and smile, God will make it easier for you when u reach heaven
2006-06-12 09:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can sue the bum for palimony check with your local courthouse about the laws in your state
2006-06-12 09:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by bridgettemarie123@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have insisted long ago
2006-06-12 09:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't know what to say?
2006-06-12 09:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by ceg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋