2006-06-12 02:25:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, please do go on a date with him!
Can you possibly imagine how great it is if such a good friend of yours for so long has been waiting for this moment all the time? And what if your feelings for him betray you, and you, come to think of it, eventually come to like him differently. Please give yourself that chance.
Lovers must befriend each other, or love itself cannot survive.
Please take my advice, go out on a date with him! I'm sure you'll both have a great time.
2006-06-12 02:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by mulatofiddler 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you want to take a chance... sometimes staying friends is better because if you break up after going out then you might not be friends anymore... sometimes going out is better because you really truly want more and you know that the other person wants more, too. what i like to do if i'm not sure is be FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS... the "FRIENDS" part: this means that you're friends and you're not necessarily "boyfriend and girlfriend." in this case, you might go to the movies together but it wouldn't be a date... now on to the "BENEFITS" part: this means that you are friends but you hook up (or make out,) he'll feel you up, and maybe have casual sex. thats what i would do. otherwise, look at the top two options! good luck! <3
2006-06-12 09:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have that feeling that you want to be more than friends, it ain't going nowhere honey. The best love evolves from friendship, you already know him, his annoying habits and how he is. Go on a date, show him how you feel, be honest because he could not only be your best friend but your soul mate also. Double package!
p.s. My relationship with my boyfriend has lasted 9 years and we were best friends long before that.
2006-06-12 09:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that I can tell you is that friends go out. If you are worried because it is labeled as a date just look at it as you two are going to hang out.
Just go with the flow and have a good time.
2006-06-12 09:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is just a date and it won't lead to anything, I think that you should go and have fun. But if you have an ounce of feeling that it might lead to something more, you have to prepare yourself for the ride ahead. If he happens to ask you to be his girlfriend, this is the question you have to ask yourself,"What happens if we happen to breakup, will we still be friends?" The real question is are you willing to put ya'lls friendship on the line. I went through the same thing, but now me and my ex are best friends.
2006-06-12 09:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI my husband was a good friend not for as many years as your friend. but when he first asked me out. i felt the same way. 17yrs ago. but my gran-mar gave me this advise.go out with him and see how you feel. you don't have to do anything you wouldn't do as friends. just take it day by day and see if you can only see him as a friend. you may surprise yourself. i did six weeks later my friendship had turned to love.two years later we married. 15yrs later i love him as much now as i did then. if not more.and now he is not only my husband that we do everything together. hes still my best friend. take a chance you will never know.good luck for the future, sammylee,
2006-06-12 09:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by sammylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its your choice do you like that someone?Or do you just want to go out with that person and then end up breaking up because you both would end up together since you both were good friends.Notice that I wrote were instead of are.The reason youll be breaking up is because your used to just hanging out with em not like dating or anything but I can be wrong.
2006-06-12 09:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by diorlatinaprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's you call. If you really want to do fine. Just remember once you past that friend stage, you don't go back. The friendship is not the same.
2006-06-12 09:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look Honey if u have been friends with this person for many of years and then you start going out then its gonna be very hard for you to adjust to being more then friends because either you or him is still gonna think of each other as just friends.
2006-06-12 09:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by sunny_alabama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most relationships that start out as good friends end up being the best marriages because they already knoe each others good and bad points try it if he is your friend he should understand and who knows he might be scared to make the first move
2006-06-12 09:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by bridgettemarie123@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋