we've talked bout marriage and we both want it someday.however it just seems like he's taking for ever to ask. been together for almost 3years. some people stay engaged for a year or even two witch is fine. i just want a ring showing he's mine and knowing he's proud of what we have.should i continue to wait and see if he'll ask or ask him myself
2006-06-12 02:30:08 · 11 answers · asked by kansasgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't rush it, My wife and I were engaged for six years and we got married last year. i'm not saying that you two should wait that long but you both should sit down and talk about the relationship. Try to talk about it but DO NOT ARGUE ABOUT IT. It's a fifty/fifty thing, you both have to agree or agree to diagree. hope this helps. God bless both of you in what ever you chose to do.
2006-06-12 02:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're too pushy about material things early on, he may reconsider whether or not he wants to marry someone like that. Do you really need a ring to PROVE he's yours. If you love him, you'll be patient and let it happen when the time is right. Don't push him away if this is the man you really want to be with. Marriage is supposed to be a life long committment, let him take as much time as he needs. It'll happen when the time is right. Good luck in life and love.
2006-06-12 02:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation some time ago. We both wanted to get married, but he just wasn't asking me. We talked about it alot. And I often pressured him and told him how badly I wanted to get married. But i never asked him, because I knew how important it was to him to ask me.
I guess that as long as you both want the same thing that it will happen eventually.
I am now a very happily married woman, and it was worth the wait!
2006-06-12 02:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by skinnytallchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If marriage is something you really want and he doesn't seem like he's gonna make the move anytime soon then you must talk to him about it and see what he wants. Don't be too obvious about the asking him to propose, if he knows that's what you want, and he wants it to he will.
2006-06-12 02:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him yourself. Then you'll know if this relationship is headed for marriage or a break up. Its one thing to talk about it, another to actually do something about it. At least then you'll know!
2006-06-12 02:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never push a man into marriage, if hes not ready get rid of him. u sound like u have a lot of love to give dont give it to unappreciative people! ~
2006-06-12 02:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well PUSH him into it get friends relatives his family to turn his weels cause if you wait hun he'll never ask trust me.
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2006-06-12 02:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some hint or clue that you want to talk about settling down...maybe he will think of it and will propose to you the sooner..just give him a little push...
2006-06-12 02:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what is keeping him from making the proposal.
2006-06-12 02:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by lil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him politely to ask you ,start with PLEASE and end with THANK YOU,it works wonders here down at the pub and the grocery store.
2006-06-12 02:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋