Family & Relationships - 7 June 2006

2006-06-07 04:44:19 · 12 answers · asked by Dz Nutz 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-07 04:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by The Bearded One 4 in Weddings

My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years and he is still very insecure and childish about it. I have never gave him any reason to be insecure, I am always telling him and showing him that I love him, but that doesn't work. I never go out with friends or even just to the mall. The only thing I actually do alone is go to the grocery store and to and from work. I am not saying that I have to go out every weekend, but some "me" time is very much needed. I can't be myself in fear that he will get mad. And if I am 5 minutes late from work he thinks I am with some one else. He is always using the phrases: "You want to be with someone else","go find someone else","you're acting funny", and many more. I am really going crazy! I walk on egg shells everyday and one of the reasons I don't go out is I know if I mention it it will just lead to a big fight and then going out would not even be worth it. I always am encourageing him to go out with some buddies. PLEASE HELP!

2006-06-07 04:43:37 · 11 answers · asked by Luis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a small problem.

I just met this girl, she's a year-younger than me (I'm 21).

She has a boyfriend. He's 22, a fourth-year in University but is from the Netherlands. He is there currently and will be coming down for her birthday at the end of June. He'll be heading back and then moving to Ottawa in September to finish his fourth-year and do an internship. They are getting a place together, with four or five other people.

She told me that she wouldn't have stayed with him had he not returned to Canada from the Netherlands.

When we're (her and I) with other people, she's kinda quiet and reserved with, what seems to be only me. However, when we're alone, like walking to my car or driving her home or on MSN, she's talkative and it seems like there is a connection.

She's beautiful. Smart. Funny, get's my sarcasm and wit, a great all-around person. I've got a huge crush on her.

What should I do?

2006-06-07 04:43:09 · 64 answers · asked by dowboy98 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't have the best of looks and I am big bone.My work has this party in the middle of May every year, and i decided to dress up really nice (but not over doing it).I straighten my hair ( i have really curly hair), bought a sexy dress, and put on the whole make-up works.I'm 18 years old. I've never been kissed, never gone on a date, haven't hold hands with a guy, and seem to only have guy friends.I haven't had a guy say to me that I'm beautiful.That night a guy that i have known most of my life says that I am beautiful three times, and i could tell deep down in his voice that he meant it.The next week he kept trying to gain my attention by bumping into me, saying that I'm sexy/hot, and stared at me .When my freind went up to him to ask him about his paper work, he said in a defensive tone that he didn't like me.When she said she was asking about someting different he blushed, and said in a stuttering voice that he was probably might go back out with his ex.
What does this mean?????

2006-06-07 04:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by larapookiebear18 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-07 04:41:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get married, and start a life of my own, and my boyfriend used to feel like that, but he has changed his mind possibly. He wants me to do things for myself, instead of together, he doesnt want me to regret it, and i understand that but, we used to talk about marriage all the time, now its whatever happens, happens. Should i be worried or should i continue being with him? I mean i love him with all my heart, but i dont want to waste my time, if the relationship is going to take forever to go to the next step. Testing me to see whether i really love him or not.

2006-06-07 04:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-07 04:38:59 · 36 answers · asked by hairlover 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-07 04:38:31 · 5 answers · asked by The Bearded One 4 in Weddings

My wife spends 3-4 hours a night on the PC then gets pissed when I get online. She has all but eliminated our friends from our life (since they do not go to church like she believe they should). She is constantly hiding things (bills, her bounced checks, etc)from me but then snoops into my email & checks up on me. She blames me because she can't afford to go to counsoling but She took a job making less than half of what she was making & told me I should get a new job making more $$ or find a part time job to help pay bills. I've looked into divorce & really can't afford it because of the kids. I'm physicaly & emotionaly drained. I love my wife but at what point do I save myself?

2006-06-07 04:38:15 · 13 answers · asked by bishop 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-07 04:38:11 · 6 answers · asked by j23.mikel 1 in Weddings

2006-06-07 04:37:17 · 4 answers · asked by The Bearded One 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

like ya know bumping into another person accidentally or locking eyes with a complete stranger and you know there's more to it? and that in the strangest place and time in your lifetime, you are going to meet one man that is unlike any other...someone they called soulmates...

2006-06-07 04:36:58 · 23 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-07 04:36:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-07 04:36:54 · 17 answers · asked by eccentriczahara 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna noe if this guy likes me

i tot he used to until recently when he started tokin to me..i felt he wuz like a friend...and now, he's been calling me hot over and oer..he waits 4 me until i come online to talk to me..he sms-ses me lots of times asking me if i have eaten and all that stuff..when in person, its just a hi and a bye...does he like me??!!

2006-06-07 04:35:49 · 36 answers · asked by hI TheRe 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-07 04:35:41 · 13 answers · asked by The Bearded One 4 in Weddings

As far as commitment, honesty, being faithful and anything else of importance in a relationship. By the way, I'm a saggitarius.

2006-06-07 04:35:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This is her first birthday.

2006-06-07 04:35:23 · 12 answers · asked by lulu 2 in Family

ing him can cause him to get very upset with you ?my husband swears up and down tht he didnt cheat and that he is getting tired of me accusing him.Now another thing thats plays into all this he doesnt get weird calls he doesnt just get up and leave for hours and not tell me where he is going he is with me 95 % of his time that litle 5 % he is at work .He only disappeared for one day for 5 hrs and i found out that him and some girl from work hung out so he could vent because she was there and was willing to listen so he said they sat at the park and talked for a little bit he aslo said she didnt stay with him the whole time and that she also has a bf and is very happy and one more thing he also says he doesnt find her attractive and says he doesnt even look at her like that so am i just over reactting is it at all possible that they just sat and talked for an hour or 2 ?I mean what would you think if this was you ?

2006-06-07 04:33:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Which do men prefer>>>

2006-06-07 04:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by smiley_mama 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have heard that (in hetro relationships) the woman generally instigates divorce, but the man causes it (always the evil man!). I am wondering if we know about same sex couples? This would be illuminating.

2006-06-07 04:33:05 · 5 answers · asked by city_shuffle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

on his girlfriend, he's planning to get his 4th car, he doesn't have any idea where his money goes. I want to teach him a lesson an pay 1/4 of our mortgage. My husband disagrees....won't talk to me about it. My son doesn't help out with grocery. I tell him to do house chores he complains. He doesn't do anything without being told not unless it has to do with his girlfriend, she comes first. His family comes last in my opinion. How can I make a 20 yr old male quit acting like he's 16/15 yrs. old. How can I make my husband support my decision in raising my son's rent up?

2006-06-07 04:32:41 · 6 answers · asked by Kathi T 1 in Family

2006-06-07 04:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by eve_polish_princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean especially you ladies. A guy winking at you has to creep you out. I hope.

2006-06-07 04:31:30 · 7 answers · asked by musedelirium 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has been depressed forever. Hasn't worked in 15 years even though we've had enormous financial woes. Past abuse of alcohol. She has not been to the doctor for even basic care in over five years. Sleeps all the time...she is basically a glorified babysitter (there to get the kids off to school and there when they get back - most of the time). Intimacy is infrequent at best (once every six to eight weeks) and she won't kiss or hug unless I'm on my way out the door. I've tried everything short of filing for divorce - but I'm scared of screwing up the kids (10 and 12). Her family, and mine said they would support me, but I wish there was a better alternative. I don't want to spend my next 40 years unhappy, without intimacy and broke. I want my kids to have it better (I work, parent from work, do homework when I get home, cook dinner most of the time, do 90% of the laundry, cub scouts, girl scouts, etc...) Should I just file for divorce and let the chips fall?

2006-06-07 04:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by Justanyoldname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-07 04:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by Janet 5 in Singles & Dating

i just recently started seeing this guy, ive been friends with him for a while and we started hanging out and basically doing everything people do when they are dating, except we arent. he is moving to VA to go to school in august and says to come visit him on the weekends and he just invited me to go to Fl for a few days. i have a very strong connection with him and i think he does with me also, but i think he is holding his emotions back, and i dont know how to take it. is he acting weird because he doesnt like me a lot, or because he does like me more then he wants to? what do i do? what do you think about it?

2006-06-07 04:30:18 · 25 answers · asked by kristlynn 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-07 04:30:11 · 11 answers · asked by disneyluvr1976 2 in Singles & Dating

can you tell me about him?

2006-06-07 04:29:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating