2006-06-07 04:36:54 · 17 answers · asked by eccentriczahara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I have married an educated sister. I had to have someone who has something going for herself. We both have degrees, and we are building our own legacy. It's true that not all relationships are perfect, but a relationship with an educated woman, in my opinion will go a lot smoother than with a hoochie.
I believe the main reason a lot of Black men go for the hoochies is simply because it's an easy chase. Flash a lil' money or bling, and the booty falls in their hands. Spit a few sweet nothings at 'em, and they got it in a few nights, if not the first night. Sorry to sound judgmental, but it's reality. A lot of the time, it's no-strings-attached. And a lot of brothers love the idea of hit & run with no problems.
2006-06-07 04:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 13⤊ 2⤋
The probelm is they are afraid U will take over in the relationship. They want to be the one with all the bright ideas. U can't be the smart one when someone is smarter than U. The r very much intimidated by smart women. they will give U every excuse in the book why this half dressed, no highschool degree having, stupid hair-do wearing, 5 kid (5 baby-daddy having), money hungry, no job having so called women is better than someone that has it all in one package. The hoochie can be put down and made to feel she needs him on the other hand the smart one will not except this because she knows like he knows she has it going on. In more ways than one.
2006-06-07 11:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the hoochie's give them what they want. Just because you are educated, that doesn't mean you can't be a freak in the bed, get with the program girl or you will lose your MAN to a hoochie!!
2006-06-07 11:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by J999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a so-called educated sister refer to another human being as a hoochie?
Go back to school and get a real education.
2006-06-07 11:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they only want one thing and once they get it they go on to another hoochie. But there are some black guys who date very respectable girls.
2006-06-07 11:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well because your educated they cant get away with **** cause you tell like is and a hoochie well you know what she does she puts out with no questions asked and plays dumb most men are scared of woman with class and educated woman
2006-06-07 11:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hoochies give it up faster.
Most guys want a couple hoochies to mess around wit and one serious girlfriend.
educated sistas like most educated women are harder to find and play harder to get.
so this isn't just black men...that pretty much all men
2006-06-07 11:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by GNOSIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their motives determine what type of woman they seek out.
But, ya know, they won't want no hoochie when they decide to settle down and marry!
2006-06-07 11:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kitten 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it takes a man with a brain to make the right choice.
2006-06-07 11:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most black man have to class, they only like slutts,,, they have no idea how to handle a classy black lady they have no idea what they are missinng
2006-06-07 11:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋