2006-06-07 04:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by eve_polish_princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:) very nice question and the question we often ask ourselves.
The point is we have to seek happiness within ourselves, a lot of us get drowned in self criticism. 1st of all you should be proud of what you are. you are a unique person, like whom there is no other on this planet.
2nd thing I would suggest is stop putting mile stones to find happiness in you life. You shouldn`t make your happiness a prisoer of little things like salary, bf, etc in your life.
Try to find happiness in the smell of the rose, smile when some little child laughs or a teethless old man smiles.
Start appreciating tiny beautiful things which make the most part of our life.
3rd and last thing I would suggest is do something for others, without any expectations. Expecting things or favours back kill the joy of giving.
Sadness and Happiness are an integral part of all our lives, if there is no sadness you will never appreciate happiness.
I hope you and all others who arer reading this, enjoy the beauty of life.
There is nothing more beautiful than getting up early in the morning and hearing the birds chirp.
2006-06-08 07:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by taurean_funnyguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finding the happy you should start with first, finding out what you enjoy doing that brings joy to your life. Second, surround yourself with people who are not downers and are willing to help you in your quest to find happiness. And third, this might sound weird but starting a journal is not a bad idea. Sometimes writing things down can help you understand yourself and find patterns in your daily routine that leads to an unhappy you. Well good luck !!!!!!
2006-06-07 12:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find something that makes u happy and whole...like a job, a hobby...or something of the kind. I was really unhappy, but now I got a lovely new job and u know....i'm not happier but i'm busier so i don't think bout my problems so often and this helps me to relax.
2006-06-07 11:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Teodora Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, learn your likes, and dislikes. Pamper yourself on occasion. Buy you an outfit you REALLY want that makes you look hot, and sexy. Tell yourself when you look good, and allow yourself to be human. We all make mistakes, and when you do, don't beat yourself up over it. It's great to be alive, and the possibilities are limitless. You can be happy! Trust me!!
2006-06-07 11:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the things that make you happy, avoid the things that make you sad
2006-06-07 11:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop looking for it in others, and try to see it in your good ol' self. :)
2006-06-07 11:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by kristian121989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a nice haircut and lots of chocolate. :-)
2006-06-07 11:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that the sad you, has no reason to be.
2006-06-07 11:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by ka250 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure i got the same prob
2006-06-07 11:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by dark angle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must think positive
2006-06-07 11:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋