I have this mindset... where its like, I feel like I have to be good in the eyes of everyone. As a result I'm pretty shy. I worry what other people think about me. I just moved to college, been here a week and haven't really made any friends. Some acquaintances, people I smile at or talk a little with in the elevator, but everyone else is walking to class with their new friends, going out at night. And I'm just trying to make myself feel busy.. alone. It sucks. At home it wasn't like this, I had friends and had a good time.
How can I overcome my shyness? How can I overcome my fear that people will judge me? How can I just open up and have fun? My roommates aren't really the kind of guy's I'd hang out with, but one of them offered for me to hang out with him and I just rejected him. i don't know why. I just don't want all of college to be like this. It's only a week in and I'm already having second thoughts - about going back to community college at home or something.
2006-09-29
09:27:19
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