I have dated the same man for the last 4 years and he keeps all of his financial stuff secret. We never discuss money. His ex wife does his taxes and knows all of his financial info. She also does everyone in his family's taxes. She works for an accountant, but in what capacity, I do not know.
I am not as secretive, but have decided if he is going to be this way, my money issues is none of his business. He asks me about personal information from time to time. I never kept things so tight lipped until I met him. I think if we ever combine as a committed couple, he should be more open about these things. I believe he spends increadible amounts of money on his ex and the kids. Its just crazy. They are divorced x 6 years and she is remarried. Its almost like he is afraid I am going to find out something. Sometimes curiosity gets to me, but I ignore the urge to snoop.
I didnt even tell him I bought a new cell phone because I am aggrivated over his secretness. How would you handle it
2006-08-24
19:14:08
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happydawg
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