Please answer this question with some thought and insight. Ever since I was a little kid, my parents always told me to tell the truth and honesty is the best policy, such and such. But as I get older, I see there is not much use in telling people the truth. Truth hurts and life is too short to be hurt for things that should or could be avoided. As you know, there is no Good or Evil, there is only action and reaction, and it is thus a value judgment of an action to be good or bad.
So my question is, should I spend my life telling people what they want to hear and let them figure out life's mysteries themselves? I mean I will not lie to harm but to let them hear what they want to hear.
Example:
Girl ask:: Should I leave my boyfriend?
You: Well...let me ask you this question. Do you still love him?
Girl: Yes I still do, very much so.
You: Well there you go. You have answered your own question.
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Deep inside, she don't want a logical answer, just assurance.
2007-01-27
16:37:39
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Inquisit
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