People use "love" as if it were an act of "giving" when really, in its most brute form, is an act of "taking."
People only love people because it makes THEM feel good. They wouldn't love anyone if it didn't make them feel a certain way.
So essentially, people only love others for themselves.
Itsn't it all a phoney, theatrical act??
Even when a mother says she loves her own child, she really only does so because it HER child and she wants to protect HER offspring. Because it is part of her.
A man or a woman who claim they love their spouse only do so because THEY THEMSELVES get something out of it.
It could be company, sex, money, security, helpful hand etc.
Nobody would love anyone if there was nothing in it for themselves.
People who adopt kids and love them only do it so they can feel good about themselves or pat themselves on the back. They think it's good karma or they'll get rewarded for it by God.
It sounds very depressing, but isn't that the cold hard truth??
2006-09-04
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