he has been talking to a woman half my age,same ethnic background,and beautiful. He says it has nothing to do with her, but he loves me, he just is no longer in love with me. We have two kids, been married for 15 yrs. I want to save my marraige. We have had alot our plate. Both accidents were not our fault, but the other parties were uninsured.We have mounting debt. We both just turned 40. He has never been like this before. It seems like the healthier I get the farther he gets. I lost 120 pounds, he hardly noticed. I have been cancer free since June .He says cruel things now. It's like he likes to hurt me and than comfort me. Is this mid-life crisis or more. He says all he has done is talk to her. He can still be loving and I will see parts of the old him and than he justs snaps out of himself and is the new him. What do I do?
2007-12-24
17:01:55
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