I am a student Primary Education teacher, and looking forward to Graduate and pursue my carrer in Education and teaching children, it's all i have ever wanted to do and b independant, i love my boyfriend so much and would do anything for him,
but i told him i don't want to get married and i never plan to have children (am in my early 20's this could change) and he went crazy he said, " he wants his life with me and he wants me to commit to him, to have children with me"
" i am being selfish because it's all about me,"
but he said its about give and take
but how can he say am being selfish when am i am saying am not ready for children,
I don't complain about his carrer as he got his degree last year so why is it such a problem for me to have one?
and i love him more than anything and don't want anyone else but he wants to marriage and am not ready,
Am i being selfish?
Should i agree to this?
2007-12-13
13:28:19
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Marriage & Divorce