My situation: I had our 1st baby in May. DH and I took baby to grandma's house (stroller ride) everyday during the summer b/c our horses were at grandma's house, and we needed to care for the horses. We live only a 5 min walk away from Grandma's. Every time we went to the farm, I'd say hi to Grandma. Grandma had a diaper changing station in her livingroom, and I used it almost daily b/c baby would fill her diaper almost everytime we went to Grandma's.
Mid Sept, grandma commented to me that I needed to not come over as much; she was seeing too much of me. The comment was hurtful, but perhaps necessary. I have quit going over to Grandma's and I have been very resentful about it b/c I am hurt by the comment.
What hurts me the most is that Grandma (m-i-l) goes to my s-i-l's numerous times, and Grandma hasn't been to our house once since mid Sept. BTW, my sil lives close to Grandma's as well. She has two boys (6 &10).
Grandma sees our baby occassionally, but I have...
2007-12-04
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