Have got a friend coming from a traditional upper community family. When he was 19, his friend's younger sister who is 3 1/2 yrs older and 2 1/2 inches height to him belonging to a lower community . They became good friends but she declined his proposal. Her elder sister married to their family friend and a divorcee. Having come to know that my friend's girlfriend is having a relationship with that family friend turned brother-in-law even prior to her elder sister's marriage, his sincere love request to stop that relationship and pave way for m'age was rejected and seemingly perturbed, my friend migrated but keeping his maiden love in heart and sought refuge in devotion. My friend became a professional. After 14 years my friend got married but because of his preoccupied love could not adjust and took divorce. Then, he suddenly came in contact with his above said gf who was also of the same profession but still not married. She now accepted the proposal and offered for marriage.However, my friend could not take a decision for marrying her 'cause he came to know she is maintaining her silent relations with colleagues besides bro-in-law. However, nobody knowing her background is coming forward to marry though she is beautiful. Her brother-in-law is also playing a role for breakage of any matches because his relationship would be put to an end. Realizing the situation, my friend pointed out silent role of her bro-in-law in lossing matches. Because of community difference and her continued silent behavior with bro-in-law and colleagues which is turmoil, my friend could not take a decision but requested that he be given must-preference when she wants to marry anybody. Shockingly, she suddenly married another person leaving at a lurch my friend. 'cause of her, my friend lost valuable 20 yrs, broken marriage, money and got second hand education by losing a challenging career and though scored good TOEFL, lost concentration on professional higher studies abroad. Is it the reward for TL (True Love)? Getting on life. Is it the reward for a sincere waiter? What to do now? Advice please?
2007-11-11
02:41:59
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Marriage & Divorce